Stubborness

Hi broke up with my bf couple days ago (lasted a year) and we have the same mates, thing is we should have space because ive been near him since then and weve ended up kissing but meaning more to me than to him, he blames me saying im fit thats why he kisses me but i shouldnt get hopes up as he has no feelings at all for me and likes this other girl. anyway i wanna see my mates and so does he, what should we do. weve tried to arrange different nights but i dont see why i should stay in when they are my mates? help!

Reply 1

Monkey_Maiden

I just get kinda hurt because now hes said to me he wants space from me for a while but found out em (girl he fancies) is out tomorrow when dan was gonna stay in but now hes coming oput even tho i will be there. kinda funny because im best mates with this girl now and she supports me and hates him

Reply 2

Mangaroo

ehh...time will heal, in the meantime find somone else/buy a games console, or deal with the occasional awkward moments when hanging out with friends.

Reply 3

Eien

Hang on - he says you're fit and he kisses you for that but sees another girl? He may be a wonderful person in many other ways but if he's that superficial and seems to have got over you without that much difficulty then I see little point bothering - it is hard, but the more you realise that he is not worth your attention and detach from him the easier it will become. I'm being judgemental to an extent, but that's the impression I have. It may be hard to leave how much he made you feel wonderful, but cutting contact is the only way - perhaps a while down the line you can see each other again amicably.

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