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sex problem

i'm gay and i'm having sex with my boyfriend tomorrow for the first time. anal is supposed to hurt like mad when never done before! i dunno if i will be given a warning as this might be a bit of a taboo subject! but can anyone give any advice for how i can make it less painful? thank you.

Reply 1

Onearmedbandit

I wouldn't know, but apparently lubricant is essential!

Reply 2

President_Ben

Lube, relaxation and going slowly.

Safe sex is good. Use a condom. Make sure the lube is safe to use with condoms.

Reply 3

Muse

I'll leave this stay for a bit so it can get some worthwhile replies, but H&R isn't generally for sex tips.

Reply 4

pikaboo

The spooning position is apparently the easiest for beginners.

Reply 5

afhstingray

i assume the same tips for inserting supositories and scopes for colonoscopies apply here? Well when inserting the scope, medics usually put a bit of lube on the tip of the scope, and a bit of lube on the insertion point. as you enter, press downwards, when i say downwards i mean down as in in the direction your legs are pointing. This is the best way .