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Missing the X
I've heard from a friend few days ago that my X is in contact with this guy who shes gotten close to. Since hearing about that it kind of made me feel depressed again. For over a week I though I overcame this but I surely havnt.
I tried talking to her 5 days ago but she was busy, then 3 days I texted her as there was a movie me and her both liked. She replied saying thanx babe x.
Then she called me 2 days back and said I thought I would give you a call as you tried calling me before and ive just been really busy with family. We didnt really know what to say to each other so she asked me whats new and I said nothing apart from the football and I asked her the same question and she replied as nothing as well.
I then had to go down for 2mins so I said ill call you back. I went down and when I called back I said sorry about that. She replied 'Its ok im gonna be off to sleep now anyway'. I kinda paused and gave one of them confused laughs. I told her 'I thought we could have a chat'. She said 'but we got nothing to talk about'. I replied 'I have plenty to talk about but I feel you just cant talk to me'. She then said 'Well what do you want to talk about?' in a direct way. I told her theres no point unless you want to, she finally said Im going to sleep and said bye.
I texted her straight after telling her I can talk to you but can you talk to me. She didnt reply.
The yesterday I texted her asking her to call or text me after 9pm.
She texted back straight away asking 'why, wassup?'
I told her I think we should have a nice chat where we both can have a laugh. I was thinking about somthing regarding the past and thought I would share it with you.
She didnt text back.
Then last night around 12:45am I recieved a call on private number but by the time I got to the phone, who ever it was hanged up.
I Texted the X this morning and asked did you call me on witheld number last night. Again No reply
I tried talking to her 5 days ago but she was busy, then 3 days I texted her as there was a movie me and her both liked. She replied saying thanx babe x.
Then she called me 2 days back and said I thought I would give you a call as you tried calling me before and ive just been really busy with family. We didnt really know what to say to each other so she asked me whats new and I said nothing apart from the football and I asked her the same question and she replied as nothing as well.
I then had to go down for 2mins so I said ill call you back. I went down and when I called back I said sorry about that. She replied 'Its ok im gonna be off to sleep now anyway'. I kinda paused and gave one of them confused laughs. I told her 'I thought we could have a chat'. She said 'but we got nothing to talk about'. I replied 'I have plenty to talk about but I feel you just cant talk to me'. She then said 'Well what do you want to talk about?' in a direct way. I told her theres no point unless you want to, she finally said Im going to sleep and said bye.
I texted her straight after telling her I can talk to you but can you talk to me. She didnt reply.
The yesterday I texted her asking her to call or text me after 9pm.
She texted back straight away asking 'why, wassup?'
I told her I think we should have a nice chat where we both can have a laugh. I was thinking about somthing regarding the past and thought I would share it with you.
She didnt text back.
Then last night around 12:45am I recieved a call on private number but by the time I got to the phone, who ever it was hanged up.
I Texted the X this morning and asked did you call me on witheld number last night. Again No reply
Anonymous
I've heard from a friend few days ago that my X is in contact with this guy who shes gotten close to. Since hearing about that it kind of made me feel depressed again. For over a week I though I overcame this but I surely havnt.
I tried talking to her 5 days ago but she was busy, then 3 days I texted her as there was a movie me and her both liked. She replied saying thanx babe x.
Then she called me 2 days back and said I thought I would give you a call as you tried calling me before and ive just been really busy with family. We didnt really know what to say to each other so she asked me whats new and I said nothing apart from the football and I asked her the same question and she replied as nothing as well.
I then had to go down for 2mins so I said ill call you back. I went down and when I called back I said sorry about that. She replied 'Its ok im gonna be off to sleep now anyway'. I kinda paused and gave one of them confused laughs. I told her 'I thought we could have a chat'. She said 'but we got nothing to talk about'. I replied 'I have plenty to talk about but I feel you just cant talk to me'. She then said 'Well what do you want to talk about?' in a direct way. I told her theres no point unless you want to, she finally said Im going to sleep and said bye.
I texted her straight after telling her I can talk to you but can you talk to me. She didnt reply.
The yesterday I texted her asking her to call or text me after 9pm.
She texted back straight away asking 'why, wassup?'
I told her I think we should have a nice chat where we both can have a laugh. I was thinking about somthing regarding the past and thought I would share it with you.
She didnt text back.
Then last night around 12:45am I recieved a call on private number but by the time I got to the phone, who ever it was hanged up.
I Texted the X this morning and asked did you call me on witheld number last night. Again No reply
I tried talking to her 5 days ago but she was busy, then 3 days I texted her as there was a movie me and her both liked. She replied saying thanx babe x.
Then she called me 2 days back and said I thought I would give you a call as you tried calling me before and ive just been really busy with family. We didnt really know what to say to each other so she asked me whats new and I said nothing apart from the football and I asked her the same question and she replied as nothing as well.
I then had to go down for 2mins so I said ill call you back. I went down and when I called back I said sorry about that. She replied 'Its ok im gonna be off to sleep now anyway'. I kinda paused and gave one of them confused laughs. I told her 'I thought we could have a chat'. She said 'but we got nothing to talk about'. I replied 'I have plenty to talk about but I feel you just cant talk to me'. She then said 'Well what do you want to talk about?' in a direct way. I told her theres no point unless you want to, she finally said Im going to sleep and said bye.
I texted her straight after telling her I can talk to you but can you talk to me. She didnt reply.
The yesterday I texted her asking her to call or text me after 9pm.
She texted back straight away asking 'why, wassup?'
I told her I think we should have a nice chat where we both can have a laugh. I was thinking about somthing regarding the past and thought I would share it with you.
She didnt text back.
Then last night around 12:45am I recieved a call on private number but by the time I got to the phone, who ever it was hanged up.
I Texted the X this morning and asked did you call me on witheld number last night. Again No reply
I know it's difficult and seems impossible at the moment but just forget about her it's the only way forward, anything else will just mess things up for you.
Okay i tried this, it kinda worked for a while. U gotta stop calling or txting her for a while to see where u stand with her. Try deleting her number from ur phone but write it down somewhere and put it away, just incase u have to get in touch with her for an emergency or if u wanna get back in contact in the future. But just delete her number, this way u can only talk to her if she contacts you, and you will be able to have a break from her for a while without gettin tempted to get in touch with her. You never know, if she doesnt hear from you for so long she may start to miss you. I rekon she is feeling a bit hassled just now as you are not together any more and she maybe wants some space. Try doing this to help yourself forget about her.
Anonymous
The yesterday I texted her asking her to call or text me after 9pm.
She texted back straight away asking 'why, wassup?'
I told her I think we should have a nice chat where we both can have a laugh. I was thinking about somthing regarding the past and thought I would share it with you.
She didnt text back.
The yesterday I texted her asking her to call or text me after 9pm.
She texted back straight away asking 'why, wassup?'
I told her I think we should have a nice chat where we both can have a laugh. I was thinking about somthing regarding the past and thought I would share it with you.
She didnt text back.
Going to be blunt, i'm guessing the reason she replied straight away was because you made it sound like something serious/important, the chances are that if you have just broken up she doesn't want to talk about the past especially if she is getting close to someone else.
What are you after from her, to keep her as a friend? or do you want her back?
If its the first then I suggest you give it a while, don't call her unless you actually have something you can chat about else it will just turn into awkward silence, and the more failed attempted conversations you have like that the harder and worse it becomes. Don't go texting her every day, maybe every occasionally but make sure its got a purpose to it eg something happened that she'll find funny (the sort of stuff you'd share with other mates) and not just a 'what you up to' as that'll seem like your keeping tabs on her. Give it time, don't expect immediate results and move on with your life.
You gotta try and not speak to her. Cause from what you are saying it sounds like you are badgering her and she is just brushing you off. As said above, delete the number and try to leave her alone. You just gotta move on.
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