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nicer looking brothers/sisters/friends than you

im really depressed about something i need to get off my chest:

i have always felt insecure and self conscious about my looks
and lately ive just come to the conclusion that im butt ugly
ive never been with a girl in my life and my future just doesnt look good
apart from the fact that i think that every girl on earth is far too good for me and wouldnt want to be caught dead with me, i have a brother thats a few years older than me that is sooo much better looking than me
hes more charming,hes got a much better body,hes more confident,etc..
hes a much nicer person than me all round...

the only girl that ive ever been interested in became vaguely interested in me aswell until she met my big brother...
then she was constantly txting him and flirting with him,etc
i dont blame him at all,its not my brothers fault that hes much hotter than me but im just so depressed about all this
id never end up in a relationship where the girl thinks im nicer than my brother,i just dont think its possible at all

he could get almost any girl that he wanted yet hes remained single most of his life which gets all the girls dropping their pants for him
if he was in a stable relationship with someone it wouldnt be as bad
ive lived my whole life so far with people probing me for information about my brother,no one wants to know a thing about me
i just dont know what to do
right now ive just settled with the fact that theres a very very small chance of me every ending up with a girl and that im going to remain jealous and bitter for the rest of my life...

and it doesnt even stop there, most of my friends are way better looking than me too and are all experienced in relationships..

can anyone relate to this? and doesnt it make you so utterly depressed?
Reply 1
Can't say I can relate to this. Seems you have a problem up in the old noggin.
Reply 2
There's only me and another mate who are good looking, the rest are so-so. Me and the other good looking one also have big wangs. There's another mate who has a small one, but he works out and stuff so is all toned and that. His girlfriend told us he was small btw...

Just don't worry about it.
Reply 3
yeah, try working out.
Reply 4
Mangaroo
yeah, try working out.


since when does working out cure ugliness?
Anonymous
im really depressed about something i need to get off my chest:

i have always felt insecure and self conscious about my looks
and lately ive just come to the conclusion that im butt ugly
ive never been with a girl in my life and my future just doesnt look good
apart from the fact that i think that every girl on earth is far too good for me and wouldnt want to be caught dead with me, i have a brother thats a few years older than me that is sooo much better looking than me
hes more charming,hes got a much better body,hes more confident,etc..
hes a much nicer person than me all round...

the only girl that ive ever been interested in became vaguely interested in me aswell until she met my big brother...
then she was constantly txting him and flirting with him,etc
i dont blame him at all,its not my brothers fault that hes much hotter than me but im just so depressed about all this
id never end up in a relationship where the girl thinks im nicer than my brother,i just dont think its possible at all

he could get almost any girl that he wanted yet hes remained single most of his life which gets all the girls dropping their pants for him
if he was in a stable relationship with someone it wouldnt be as bad
ive lived my whole life so far with people probing me for information about my brother,no one wants to know a thing about me
i just dont know what to do
right now ive just settled with the fact that theres a very very small chance of me every ending up with a girl and that im going to remain jealous and bitter for the rest of my life...

and it doesnt even stop there, most of my friends are way better looking than me too and are all experienced in relationships..

can anyone relate to this? and doesnt it make you so utterly depressed?



Listen dont think ur the first (or the last ) to think this, Theres no point getting upset about it. As everyone will say , DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT !, for some it comes natural (good looking ) some have to work at it. I mean basically working out , dont have to be intense work outs , start of as little as 10mins a day and u be fine. Also u will feel mentally better as well. I think everyone goes into this phase , (and me aswell) but go jogging , lift some weights u WILL BE fine trust me.
Reply 6
Anonymous
since when does working out cure ugliness?


Plastic surgery is the only cure for uglynesss.

Why don't you tell us WHY you think you are ugly. What features don't you like and what would you like them to be?.

There are a number of ways to improve your look. Change of wardrobe, the way you carry yourself, smiling more, changing hairstyle etc.
Anonymous
since when does working out cure ugliness?



Working out does make people feel better. trust me
Reply 8
Maybe you havent found the right girl yet? Anyway, first thing you should do is stop comparing yourself to your brother/other people so much. You gotta accept that there will always be someone better looking, smarter, more charming etc ( that goes for everyone, not just for you), so you cant let your feelings of inferiority stop living your life. Plus no girl will want to be with you if you're depressed all the time.
Reply 9
thanks for trying to help me guys but ive obviously come to the wrong place for advice
i think my problems are rooted alot deeper than all of you will be able to see
my ugliness goes right to the bone and the fact that im terrible at socialising just tops it off
ill just have to accept my problems and find my own way to overcome them
Reply 10
schoolboy error.
Reply 11
No worries! There must be something special about you!! I'm a living proof! Well, basically my siblings are fair (they have very smooth skin), good looking, have good figure, very attractive (as they have been in relationships) but there's one thing that god gave me which they do not quite have. I'm smarter than them! In fact, I'm good at music and performing arts too and have been in national level productions which made a name for me (have been getting acting invitations till now) Hehehehe.. Thank you God!


You just need to find something that you really like to do and strive!
Reply 12
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