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Any ideas

I have got loadsa blokes who im v close friends with and we get on really well but i struggle to find a boyfriend. I have got short hair due to medical reasons a few years back and am scared to regrow it and also put on weight due to the same problem but cant loose it easily. Has anyone got any idea as to what i could do to in order to help myself get a boyfriend - its depressing me.

Reply 1

Hi drunkensailor - welcome aboard (if you excuse the pun)

If you have loads of male friends,why not ask one of them out? And don't worry about your hair - short hair on girls is hot...well, mostly hehe

Reply 2

Do you actually fancy any of these male mates?

If you're close with them you could ask if they knew any reason why you don't get asked out....maybe you just don't meet enough lads?

Reply 3

drunkensailor
I have got loadsa blokes who im v close friends with and we get on really well but i struggle to find a boyfriend. I have got short hair due to medical reasons a few years back and am scared to regrow it and also put on weight due to the same problem but cant loose it easily. Has anyone got any idea as to what i could do to in order to help myself get a boyfriend - its depressing me.
Stop getting battered and losing your keys!


Hi claire :creep:

Don't worry about it mate, something or somebody will come up. I've given up looking because it never gets me anywhere. If you want someone to like you for who you are then just be yourself :biggrin:

Reply 4

with one of my mates we did have something, then realised between us we got on better just being really gd mates and left it like that, i do fancy one of them just dont have the nerve to ask him out

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sorry tom who are ya?

Reply 5

drunkensailor
i do fancy one of them just dont have the nerve to ask him out
well there's your answer - what have you got to lose? Ask him out for a drink or something, if he says yes, then great - if not, ah well! **** happens! Good luck :smile:

Reply 6

drunkensailor
sorry tom who are ya?
Answer your phone and I'll tell you :p:

Reply 7

Hi Love,

You dnt have to do anything to attract guys. Just be urself and keep ur head high. Am also very sure that u look great with ur short hair. Pls dont worry, and dont think abt changing urself for anyone!! Hugs.

Reply 8

TomInPortsmouth
Answer your phone and I'll tell you :p:
Stalker alert! Should we be worried?!!

Reply 9

If your short hair does not suit you then maybe extensions would be an idea.

As for your weight you could dress in a way that complements a fuller figure if you know what I mean.

Reply 10

TrentEnd
Stalker alert! Should we be worried?!!
Yes, yes she should, considering I have sat on her sofa at 5am eating cheesy chips with her house mate. I'm very good at grooming the young ones. He even let me use the toilet, only 5 steps away from your bedroom I was :evil: muhahaha :rolleyes:

Reply 11

TomInPortsmouth
Yes, yes she should, considering I have sat on her sofa at 5am eating cheesy chips with her house mate. I'm very good at grooming the young ones. He even let me use the toilet, only 5 steps away from your bedroom I was :evil: muhahaha :rolleyes:
haha i genuinely don't know whether to laugh or cry!!

Reply 12

TrentEnd
haha i genuinely don't know whether to laugh or cry!!
I used to work with Drunken Sailor also :rolleyes:

Reply 13

ah tom worked out who u r know! soz!!!! soz missed ur call left my phone downstairs!

Reply 14

drunkensailor
ah tom worked out who u r know! soz!!!! soz missed ur call left my phone downstairs!
I know, I saw you through the window :evil: lol

Reply 15

Side-track: Do all 3 of us come from Wokingham, and go to Portsmouth uni?

Reply 16

No I'm from Herts.

Reply 17

yeh im from wokingham at pompey

Reply 18

drunkensailor
I have got loadsa blokes who im v close friends with and we get on really well but i struggle to find a boyfriend.



get them to make themselves useful then and see which of their friends might wanna be set up with you.

whenever I'm going through a quiet patch, I make my girl mates useful on the ole setting up business :wink: