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would you b annoyed if ur b/f went to a strip club and got a private dance?
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Err.. yeha
No... not really.
Fleece
um personally.......yes
If I were a girl and had a boyfriend, yes I'd be pretty disturbed. No offence but it doesn't say a lot about his opinion of you if that's where he chooses to spend his time.
Yeah lol, especially if he didnt tell me he was going.
very upset... strip club is almost acceptable but i'd still be upset... private dance is too far. much too far...
he told me
i wud but at least he has been honest and told u! but i wud b pissed off!
I'd never go to a strip club If I had a girlfriend.
then again I'd never goto a strip club anyway? Nightclubs with Quid nights were invented for a reason, I'd hate to be able to look without maybe being able to touch.
then again I'd never goto a strip club anyway? Nightclubs with Quid nights were invented for a reason, I'd hate to be able to look without maybe being able to touch.
claireyfairy
i wud but at least he has been honest and told u! but i wud b pissed off!
Anyway clearly it means:
a) He thinks you do not have a problem with it - though the fact you ask others for their opinion seems to suggets you DO have a problem with it, or at least are ambigous
b) He was going to get caught out - better to be honest, is this the case?
c) He wants to deliberately hurt you for reasons that are his own.
For what it is worth, what was said about the pornogrpahy probably apllies here, that is he saw it as a seprate act of gratification that in his mind did not reflect on you. However it is rather more personal that porn, I would agree so you probably are within your rights to be angry.
he;s goin 4 mates bday, and said al his mates wil b gettin one so he may as wel, he's dun it b4 but b4 we were together. i told him it was fine but i dunno if it is
PaperMoon
Dump him.
If you feel this is a gross violation of you, and principles that you made clear then that would be a simple pretext for doing that though, of course.
At the end of the day do what is in your best interests (as ever).
ferrus
Can you really make that judgement based on the limited evidence you have. That is the attitudes and lifestyles of both.
If you feel this is a gross violation of you, and principles that you made clear then that would be a simple pretext for doing that though, of course.
At the end of the day do what is in your best interests (as ever).
If you feel this is a gross violation of you, and principles that you made clear then that would be a simple pretext for doing that though, of course.
At the end of the day do what is in your best interests (as ever).
The OP asked for other people's opinions. When people ask for advice clearly everyone who posts has to make some kinds of assumptions.
I just think a man who goes to stripclub, when he has a girlfriend clearly doesnt care much about her, particularly if he knows this might hurt her. I mean even if he desperately wanted to try it, it's not such a huge sacrifice to make for the sake of someone he's supposed to be very close to. If he cant do something so little,I imagine he doesnt actually care that much.
But still, every person has their own values and ideas about what's right, that's just my opinion.
I would say that i would prefer it if he didn't have a private dance. My boyfriend wouldn't though as he knows it will annoy me, he's had the chance to go to a strip club in Kavos, and even though all his mates went he didn't because he knew i would be upset. That said when i'm there with him it's completely different, we've been to a couple of sex shows in Amsterdam for example, which was fine. xx
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