girls dont like young guys?

why is it that whenever i tell my real age to a girl/woman who is older than i am, she just gets not interested, whereas she was very interested before telling her that?
why are they bothered about age?

Reply 1

Tyler Durden

17

Because it's illegal to shag a 13 year old. Now go to bed - it's past 10 O'clock! :p:

Reply 2

icedsilhouette

can i ask what is your real age? it could be that you're stereotyped to your age group and seen as immature... or maybe they believe they are probably looking for something different froma guy than you can give?

Reply 3

hanadeka2002

I like younger guys...not younger than 17 though as that just borders on illegal I think.

Reply 4

Ferrus

19

Generally speaking girls go for those older than them, it's just the way it is. It's mainly an issue of maturity and security really.

Still it is not as bad as the 19th cnetury when a relationship between a man and a woman who was older than him was seen as unnatural.

Reply 5

kriztinae

14

englishstudent

Because it's illegal to shag a 13 year old. Now go to bed - it's past 10 O'clock! :p:

harsh!!
hehe
us girls just mature faster than boys :p:

Reply 6

clouddweller

if you've previously told her a different age maybe its the lying thats put her off, rather than your actual age.
either that or it could be your age in relation to hers.....

Reply 7

wazzup

OP

icedsilhouette

can i ask what is your real age? it could be that you're stereotyped to your age group and seen as immature... or maybe they believe they are probably looking for something different froma guy than you can give?

17, but i say i am 18, when in clubs.still they dont like my age.these girls are usually 18 or over.rarely 18.i just think they are 17-18 years old. however after talking to them, i find out they are 21. :frown:

Reply 8

Fleece

15

and therein lies the trouble. i'm 20 and would never think about getting it on with a 17 yr old, just because from personal experience, it's a hell of a leap from 17 to 20.

Reply 9

xoxo_GossipGirl

11

Mentally boys are 5 years younger than girls. That's why we go for older guys. I'd never go out with anyone younger than me, rarely even with people the same age. They're just too immature

Reply 10

foxo

17

wazzup

17, but i say i am 18, when in clubs.still they dont like my age.these girls are usually 18 or over.rarely 18.i just think they are 17-18 years old. however after talking to them, i find out they are 21. :frown:

If all that matters to you is the age gap, then I'm sure you could do much better than just a few years by getting a 60 year old. She'd be delighted.

Reply 11

icedsilhouette

wazzup

17, but i say i am 18, when in clubs.still they dont like my age.these girls are usually 18 or over.rarely 18.i just think they are 17-18 years old. however after talking to them, i find out they are 21. :frown:

Ahhh... your girl of 21 tends to want a different kinda relationship to your 17 yr old guy! tbh i'm 19 (just) and I wouldn't date a 17 year old... it feels like a huge age gap because of maturity issues and such!

Reply 12

Barny

17

Being young has only helped me in that department, strangely :smile:

Reply 13

foxo

17

It's never really affected me either. Most people think I'm 21 - 23 when I'm out drinking.

Reply 14

username21537

2

-x-buttercup-x-

Mentally boys are 5 years younger than girls. That's why we go for older guys. I'd never go out with anyone younger than me, rarely even with people the same age. They're just too immature

Im liking the whole sweeping-generalisation theme youve got going on here :rolleyes:

Reply 15

Harv616

9

kriztinae

harsh!!
hehe
us girls just mature faster than boys :p:

Lies!

Reply 16

foxo

17

-x-buttercup-x-

Mentally boys are 5 years younger than girls.

So I should be going out with a 12 year old?

I'll tell the judge that it was your recommendation.

Reply 17

dede

11

foxo

So I should be going out with a 12 year old?

I'll tell the judge that it was your recommendation.

ewww ...

Reply 18

I would dump a guy if I found out he was younger than me. It would feel like I wasn't good-looking enough/ smart enough. mature enough. good enough to get a guy my own age. Plus guys under 18 can't:
*Drive a decent car (or drive in some cases)
* Own a house
* have a career with a decent wage ( or are not likely to be at university)

Plus older guys are more attractive than some spotty/ greasey teenager :P

Reply 19

Tyler Durden

17

Anonymous

I would dump a guy if I found out he was younger than me. It would feel like I wasn't [...] smart enough.

You might not be far off the mark.

girls dont like young guys?

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