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Hiya, I've just split up with my bf after a year due to his feelings changing and him liking another girl, this girl doens't like him in the slightest so hes feeling low whereas quite few blokes have shown interest in me but I don't want them. anyway we both have said we dont love each other anymore but we still find each other really pretty/sexy and end up kissing and even having sex on a couple occasions. we both want it but after feel weird and confused. Im going back to uni next week so that might help us get over each other but is it wrong still sleeping with your recent ex?

Reply 1

Harv616

9

Exs are evil
Exs are evil
Exs are evil
Exs are evil
Exs are evil
Exs are evil
Exs are evil

Just break all contact

Reply 2

Wild Thing

11

BhArJ

Exs are evil
Exs are evil
Exs are evil
Exs are evil
Exs are evil
Exs are evil
Exs are evil

Just break all contact

Did you ever go out with your bestfriend at the end? :smile:

Erm, same happened to me. It's not wrong, just confusing. Doesn't mean that you like eachother though...it's just that you're used to doing that when you're alone.

Reply 3

Barny

17

Happened to me, easy to fall into a trap, way to sort it in my experience is just to completely block contact, don't answer calls/txts, block on MSN, everything, even then its still easy to do but you just need to exercise a bit of will power :p:

Reply 4

xXMessedUpXx

15

Anonymous

Hiya, I've just split up with my bf after a year due to his feelings changing and him liking another girl, this girl doens't like him in the slightest so hes feeling low whereas quite few blokes have shown interest in me but I don't want them. anyway we both have said we dont love each other anymore but we still find each other really pretty/sexy and end up kissing and even having sex on a couple occasions. we both want it but after feel weird and confused. Im going back to uni next week so that might help us get over each other but is it wrong still sleeping with your recent ex?

Maybe not wrong, but it won't do you any good. You'll always have a connection, that can never go anywhere and it will eventually drive you insane..

Reply 5

Harv616

9

wild thing

Did you ever go out with your bestfriend at the end? :smile:

Erm, same happened to me. It's not wrong, just confusing. Doesn't mean that you like eachother though...it's just that you're used to doing that when you're alone.

Nah, she did'nt want a bf :rolleyes:

Girls are insain

Reply 6

Wild Thing

11

BhArJ

Nah, she did'nt want a bf :rolleyes:

Girls are insain

pfff what an idiot...did you tell her you liked her at least? :rolleyes:

Reply 7

Harv616

9

wild thing

pfff what an idiot...did you tell her you liked her at least? :rolleyes:

lol yeh i did that, silly :p:

Shes just too busy to have a bf really, but you know, lifes a bitch :rolleyes:

Reply 8

Wild Thing

11

awww BhArJ :frown:

shes not worth you then :p:

Reply 9

ApeXaviour

7

xXMessedUpXx

Maybe not wrong, but it won't do you any good. You'll always have a connection, that can never go anywhere and it will eventually drive you insane..

Agreed, two friends of mine did this for a year after they broke up. It did neither of them any good. It's like a fuse waiting to go off seriously, when they blew, they BLEW. We as their mates were left to pick up the pieces.

This is especially true since you obviously still have feelings for him. When he does find somebody else.. how will you feel? You are definitely better off cutting off all contact as it's doing you no good. Soon enough after you will start wanting other people. Think about it rationally, put on the fog lights in that emotionally clouded brain of yours..

Reply 10

icedsilhouette

I did it. Made a huge mess of my life, ruined quite a few group friendships and pushed me into bad places...

Not good in short...

Reply 11

Mrs_F

15

I did that with my ex boyfriend we kept on meeting up and ended up sleeping together, but it was just messing both our heads up. You need to break all ties from him and move on otherwise it will get more and more difficult for you both.

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