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Boyfriends insecurities

My boyfriend has been acting really wierd lately, he has asked me if i thought it would be best if we ended the relationship completely out of the blue, i love him and i ofcourse told him i didnt want to.
He says he loves me to, and his friends say he does, and that because of it he wants to end it. Apparently he doesnt know why i am with him, he thinks i can do a lot better and is holding me back.

Nothing i can say seems to convince him, i am worried his insecurities are going to lead to the end of the relationship. Because he is so insecure, he doesnt like it and gets paranoid even if i just talk to another boy..i dont knw what to do... :confused:
tell him if he loves you he'll respect you enough to make your own decisions.
love isnt a point based system. if the chemistry is right it just works. theres nothing to say if you hook up with a charismatic billionaire you'll be any happier than you are with him.
afhstingray
love isnt a point based system. if the chemistry is right it just works. theres nothing to say if you hook up with a charismatic billionaire you'll be any happier than you are with him.


Wow... three lines, three clichés! 100% strike rate, nice work!
Reply 3
its easy to say something and its easy to dismiss it or not believe it.

really do something to prove to him how you feel.

is he a gemini by any chance?
Reply 4
lol, that is freaky...yes he is a gemini actually...
Reply 5
\_Nenna_/
lol, that is freaky...yes he is a gemini actually...


thought so...he sounds very like me. if you want to PM me and give more details i might be able to offer some more advice
Dear lord - technik - you go in for all that BS? I never would have guessed! :biggrin:
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englishstudent
Dear lord - technik - you go in for all that BS? I never would have guessed! :biggrin:


not really. im not one for "everyone has 1 of 12 lives".

however it sounded very like me, and i clearly chose right, and i think i'd be able to offer something useful
technik
and i think i'd be able to offer something useful

Good stuff!