Are girls really concerned with guys money

OK, on TV we always see these ugly old guys with these young beautiful, seemingly perfect girls. Is that all girls really go for. Like he needs to have £1 million in the bank and just famous in every way. Sometimes I feel like Im not good enough for any girl because of this image.

Reply 1

dogtanian

16

Haha, not at all.

I'm not perfect, but I think I'm alright. And I don't go for the cash..

Don't start letting yourself think that money is all girls want. It'll just make you less likely to get a girl if you convince yourself that's the case...

Reply 2

FireDeuce

14

I am. But thats because im selfish and materialistic

Reply 3

Girls don't want guys with money! :biggrin:

Girls want guys with cars. :wink:

Reply 4

Caster Troy2

They're not perfect if they're gold digging whores

Reply 5

No Future

17

Adam83

OK, on TV we always see these ugly old guys with these young beautiful, seemingly perfect girls. Is that all girls really go for. Like he needs to have £1 million in the bank and just famous in every way. Sometimes I feel like Im not good enough for any girl because of this image.

Aye, some gals be gold-diggers but not all. Not everyone is looking for someone rich and famous. Surprisingly, some want to find someone they really love. Don't worry about how much money you have. It's personality that matters. What's the point in being with someone you have no interest in simply for wealth?

Reply 6

Aroosh

well its nice of u to notice, no rich guy is actually going to care how he gets the chick jst as long as she has all the right curves in all the right places thats a guys main concern i feel these days
but no not all girls r gold diggers but a large fraction of them are and i believe u can spot them out
good luck

Reply 7

twiga

15

So long as your hearts in the right place that's all that matters.

Reply 8

kb500

Adam83

OK, on TV we always see these ugly old guys with these young beautiful, seemingly perfect girls. Is that all girls really go for. Like he needs to have £1 million in the bank and just famous in every way. Sometimes I feel like Im not good enough for any girl because of this image.

I'm sure it's not the only thing girls go for, but it certainly plays a part especially as people get older. Generally if you have money it will mean you have success which is something girls are also attracted to. However plenty of guys out there without money do very well for themselves with the opposite sex so don't stress.

Reply 9

President_Ben

15

I think it's fair to say that you won't get turned down for being rich and that some people, whatever gender, are really shallow.

Reply 10

Tarts_n_Vicars

13

Girls don't want guys with money...the money on its own will do just fine :biggrin:

On a serious note I'm sure there are girls that do, but the nice ones are more interested in the guy as a person rather than his bank balance.

Reply 11

q1w2e3r4t5y

I couldn't care less how much he earned, I wouldn't like to live off someone else's money because it would make me feel worthless, I want to earn my own living.
Sadly, seeing girls do this sort of thing just makes me feel like they are disgracing the female population. ( :p:

ahem)

But you do get shallow guys too, who only go for women because they're good looking or have massive breasts. So I guess it works both ways :p:

Yeah, *looks sad* most people on this planet are shallow human beings.

Reply 12

Girls like money because it means you can protect them and look after children if you have any, it also means they can go shopping! It's a caveman instinct that most girls have, but that doesn't mean we can't override it. Personally, as long as a guy has enough money to take me to a restaurant once in a while that's fine. Sometimes he doesn't even need that but it is nice to have drinks bought for you. So much for feminism! Not having money is not a major problem at all at our age, most people have none! However, if you are still poor in a boring, low paid job when you are thirty something, then you will have problems.

Reply 13

icedsilhouette

apparently it's in a womans pyschology to find more wealthy men more attractive, but I don't think it's ever bothered me how rich a guy is, as long as he's not skanking money off me all the time!

Reply 14

Anonymous

Personally, as long as a guy has enough money to take me to a restaurant once in a while that's fine.

I really don't understand why girls expect meals and drinks to be bought for them.

Anyway, Women are attracted stength whether via money, via power, via social standing or via physical strength. Usually some combination of it.

Reply 15

q1w2e3r4t5y

Adam83

OK, on TV we always see these ugly old guys with these young beautiful, seemingly perfect girls.

These girls don't necessarily represent all girls.... Those are most likely (not always) the shallow ones.

Reply 16

totallydeflated

only rich and famous girls want to be with rich and famous guys, i think. how many rich and famous guy are there in europe anyway?. you'll be fine. it is understandable why gold diggers would settle for old aswell provided there is money involved. we all compromise sometimes.

it will be a bit shallow if i refuse to date a guy with all the qualities i want in a mate just because he is shorter than i am. i think i would compromise. thats what perfect looking gold diggers do too, she wouldn't dismiss the man of her dreams (rich and famous) because he is old or ugly. atleast i wouldn't. :biggrin:

Reply 17

Ceri327

9

i would rather be with the right guy 4 me
than some rich guy that made me miserable moneys not that important and u can be sure that if it was most would go and make it themselves

Reply 18

PaperMoon

OK, on TV we always see these ugly old guys with these young beautiful, seemingly perfect girls

well, are you not being a bit shallow yourself by equalling the ultimate perfection in a woman to being young and beautiful?
Anyway, it works both ways, the guy needs to be rich, the girl needs to be stunning,kinda like a business deal and shallowness all round.

Reply 19

pumpkin7

13

i couldn't give a crap about how much any man has. i would not be like those girls who married a 60 year old because he is loaded... that is just kind of sick.
though, it would be nice to be with someone who could buy me things though :colondollar:

hehe.

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