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Judgmental friend

I have a friend who is, err pretty image conscious. She often comments on how X is really not cool, or how Y is fairly cool etc etc. She even told me to stop hanging around with some people who are nice, because they're "uncool" but I don't care!!! It rather upset me, but I didn't know what to say to her. She then went on to label various people as "cool enough" or not etc. Meh.

Does image matter to you?
Do you only hang with people who are "cool enough"?

Reply 1

Ceri327

9

no image doesnt matter to me that much sure i like to go out and make an effort as to how i look but i wud NEVER not hangout with someone i like cus their not "cool" enough

its really good that ur not going to drop ur mates who are nice jus cus she tells u to

where does she get off telling u what to do!!! see must be so self conscious herself she's worried about wut other people will say if she hangs out with people who are "not cool" all the time

tell her u dont think its "cool" to label people

nd u have to wonder what she's saying about u, is she a true friend

Reply 2

zhivago

2

No Future

I have a friend who is, err pretty image conscious. She often comments on how X is really not cool, or how Y is fairly cool etc etc. She even told me to stop hanging around with some people who are nice, because they're "uncool" but I don't care!!! It rather upset me, but I didn't know what to say to her. She then went on to label various people as "cool enough" or not etc. Meh.

Does image matter to you?
Do you only hang with people who are "cool enough"?

I used to have a friend like that, she was one of my best. For a while she was very up herself and not too kind so I just distanced myself from her with another mate and we kind of stopped being in such close proximity to her. We have recently become close again and she is no longer like that. I can assure you it will just be a teenage phase, I doubt she will stay like that forever. If she is unpleasant to be around do what I did and take a break from her, chances are she will come around and realise what a prick she was being.

Reply 3

pumpkin7

13

people who hang out with people just because of how they look are just shallow.. get some proper friends..

Reply 4

twiga

15

Is she really a true friend? If she was then she would want you to be around those who you like, not who she deems as "cool enough".

Reply 5

MNBStyle

9

No Future

Does image matter to you?
Do you only hang with people who are "cool enough"?

Image doesn't matter to me,
the people i respect most are the people who be themselves and dont give a **** what other people think about it, (Unless they gota real bad problem like being a thug or criminal then i hope they do care)
Sounds like your friend has alot of growing up 2 do, how old is she??

Reply 6

gemby!

2

i hang out with some of the most uncoolest people ever, but i also mingle with the cool. im really not that fussed

i like to judge people on character. some of the 'cool' people are irritating anyway

Reply 7

Michelin Man

2

if your nice to me i'll be nice to you, simple. Be an arse you'll get the treatment you deserve. It should be irrelevant social status etc.

Reply 8

Lush Law

15

you're mate is a ****** I suggest you ditch her.

pronto.

Reply 9

justbrowsing

4

No Future

I have a friend who is, err pretty image conscious. She often comments on how X is really not cool, or how Y is fairly cool etc etc. She even told me to stop hanging around with some people who are nice, because they're "uncool" but I don't care!!! It rather upset me, but I didn't know what to say to her. She then went on to label various people as "cool enough" or not etc. Meh.

Does image matter to you?
Do you only hang with people who are "cool enough"?

Just tell her she's 'uncool' because she's so bloody boring!!!

Reply 10

Whizz

1

red roadkill

pronto

I love that word!

:redface:

On the topic, yes your friend is sad. Tell her to grow up. Simple as ABC (see - you need to talk to her as if she were a five year old, because she's behaving like one).

Reply 11

technik

13

No Future

I have a friend who is, err pretty image conscious. She often comments on how X is really not cool, or how Y is fairly cool etc etc. She even told me to stop hanging around with some people who are nice, because they're "uncool" but I don't care!!! It rather upset me, but I didn't know what to say to her. She then went on to label various people as "cool enough" or not etc. Meh.

Does image matter to you?
Do you only hang with people who are "cool enough"?

not particularly bothered. im not cool...none of my mates are cool either...but we're cool with each other. thats what being friends with people is about. just hanging and growing up together.

Reply 12

No Future

I have a friend who is, err pretty image conscious. She often comments on how X is really not cool, or how Y is fairly cool etc etc. She even told me to stop hanging around with some people who are nice, because they're "uncool" but I don't care!!! It rather upset me, but I didn't know what to say to her. She then went on to label various people as "cool enough" or not etc. Meh.

Does image matter to you?
Do you only hang with people who are "cool enough"?

People who are cool don't want to hang out with me :rolleyes:

I have a friend who is rather judgemental of what I do and has strong opinions that she voices about what I do. She means well, but it can get annoying.

Judgmental friend

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