Now, as the title explains, I apologise for coming across as an obsessed nutter, but it's a Sunday evening, and I've nothing to do except stew over this irritating issue!!!!
Please refer back to my original post, which is on page two of the treads, sent two days ago; entitled "Your Interpretations On His Behaviour Please"
Basically, I sent him a text at 2pm this afternoon, basicaly wishing him a Hapy New Year, and asking what he did for the evening. I haven't had a reply!
Now, my question is this...
Why the hell does he act realy keen while we're at Uni, than behave like this? Now I know it sounds as though I'm jumping the gun a bit as I didnt exactly send it years ago, but still! He told me on Thursday night that he wasn't doing anything tonight when I bumped into him in a club on thursday.
It's just that when we're at Uni, he'll reply within a few minutes, now this. I'm also concerned by the fact that he seems to act really cold with me now we're back home. I've only seen him twice, both times were at a club on Thursday nights. One minute he'll be really keen to see me, then he'll go miserable. For example, I kept his scarf in my bag as the Cloakroom was full. My friend felt ill during the evening, so we left early. I went up to give him hs scarf and he told me to keep hold of it, despite making it clear that I was leaving. He then semi went off in a sulk!
Basically, I really dont know how to read him; he's the most complex person I've ever known. But like I said, I really want to sort this out, as I'm not going back to Uni in January to revert back to the games, as I know he'll just act as normal and play them when we go back.
(excuse the lame phrase!), but really dont want to not have him around & in my life, so I'd be tempted to go along with it, but it really is a kinda 'all or nothing' situation for me. In the meantime, if I did stop this behaviour that goes on between us, we'd inevitably socialise in all the same bars (our Uni town is a small one!) and i'm sure at some point I'd be seen by him talking to a person of the opposite sex! As i've said before, he gets a bit peeved by this, and makes a fuss. I imagine he'd never speak to me again if I stoped the silly flirting and was seen talking to others guys! You see, Ivery much doubt that we could ever be friends, despite having so much in common. (btw- thats not just my opinion- his friend told me how "funny" I am. He really isnt the sort to give out peculiar compliments like that, either!)
I'm rambling like a nutter, but he's lovely and that's why I'm so bothered!
Thanks in advance for any replies X