what would u do??

Hi i was wondering if any1 has any sort of advise on my situtation??

Well there's this girl at uni and I'd really like like to go out with her. I think she's lovely and we get along really well, txting, msn, watchin films together and all that sorta stuff. When we're in clubs we always hold hands, she sits on my lap and hugs me and well i'm a bit of a tit for not making a proper move yet (reasons for which I'll explain in a second). I'm pretty sure tho if I asked her out she'd say yes but that's sort of the problem lol as I'll now explain.

You see I'm really inexperienced and what I'm worried about is that I'll be so bad that the relationship wouldn't work. It's also stopped me from making the first move cos I think i'd be so bad at kissing that it'd just spoil everything. I think maybe she'd understand but at the same time if i'm so bad then she won't be enjoying herself and that makes me feel bad and also im worried it'd put her off me entirely.

Well thats the situation in short.. I think I'm going to bite the bullet and ask her out anyway and see how it goes cos i'd rather it go all wrong then never having tried at all but at the same time i'd be soo upset if i got into a relationship and it went wrong because of my inexperience!

anyway any advise id greatly appreciate

thanks

Reply 1

MNBStyle

9

clenbuterol

I think I'm going to bite the bullet and ask her out anyway and see how it goes cos i'd rather it go all wrong then never having tried at all

I think this quote from your post somes it all up as to what you should do, as for the inexperience, if shes really a nice girl she will be fine with it and understand, and be happy to teach you, guide you and that

Good luck

Reply 2

Whizz

1

I think i'd be so bad at kissing that it'd just spoil everything

Half the fun is learning and experiencing new things together! Don't build her up to be this mega experienced girl in your head - that way you won't be too surprised when she's just as new to it as you :wink:

Good Luck!

Reply 3

naelse

15

The first leap will always be hard, but you will feel so much better for getting over your fear and just going for it.

Reply 4

justbrowsing

4

clenbuterol

Hi i was wondering if any1 has any sort of advise on my situtation??

Well there's this girl at uni and I'd really like like to go out with her. I think she's lovely and we get along really well, txting, msn, watchin films together and all that sorta stuff. When we're in clubs we always hold hands, she sits on my lap and hugs me and well i'm a bit of a tit for not making a proper move yet (reasons for which I'll explain in a second). I'm pretty sure tho if I asked her out she'd say yes but that's sort of the problem lol as I'll now explain.

You see I'm really inexperienced and what I'm worried about is that I'll be so bad that the relationship wouldn't work. It's also stopped me from making the first move cos I think i'd be so bad at kissing that it'd just spoil everything. I think maybe she'd understand but at the same time if i'm so bad then she won't be enjoying herself and that makes me feel bad and also im worried it'd put her off me entirely.

Well thats the situation in short.. I think I'm going to bite the bullet and ask her out anyway and see how it goes cos i'd rather it go all wrong then never having tried at all but at the same time i'd be soo upset if i got into a relationship and it went wrong because of my inexperience!

anyway any advise id greatly appreciate

thanks

She's probably under the impression that you aren't that bothered (for a rouh idea on how girl's minds work, see my thread below!)

If she is comfortable enough to sit on your bloody lap, she clearly doesn't suspect that you're shy, more like she wishes you'd just make a bloody move.

My patience is running thin tonight so I don't mean to sound blunt. Darling, she clearly likes you. Ask her, think we all know she's gonna say yes.

Lots of luck x x

Reply 5

El Scotto

15

clenbuterol

Hi i was wondering if any1 has any sort of advise on my situtation??

Well there's this girl at uni and I'd really like like to go out with her. I think she's lovely and we get along really well, txting, msn, watchin films together and all that sorta stuff. When we're in clubs we always hold hands, she sits on my lap and hugs me and well i'm a bit of a tit for not making a proper move yet (reasons for which I'll explain in a second). I'm pretty sure tho if I asked her out she'd say yes but that's sort of the problem lol as I'll now explain.

You see I'm really inexperienced and what I'm worried about is that I'll be so bad that the relationship wouldn't work. It's also stopped me from making the first move cos I think i'd be so bad at kissing that it'd just spoil everything. I think maybe she'd understand but at the same time if i'm so bad then she won't be enjoying herself and that makes me feel bad and also im worried it'd put her off me entirely.

Well thats the situation in short.. I think I'm going to bite the bullet and ask her out anyway and see how it goes cos i'd rather it go all wrong then never having tried at all but at the same time i'd be soo upset if i got into a relationship and it went wrong because of my inexperience!

anyway any advise id greatly appreciate

thanks

Firstly, It sounds like she wants your nuts.

Secondly, everybody has to start learning at some point....
let her take the lead like she has been doing so far.

Thirdly, Leave it too long after her being blatent like that and she'll think you dont like her.

*edit* you're a female? If so arn't girls normally like that with other girls anyway and its just being friendly?

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