Meddling kids...

I think that you both need to stay away from these girls, get them out of your lives and fast, as it could get really nasty (if any adults get wind of this cheating malarky your boyfriend could get into serious trouble).

I have never had an experience like this myself, or no anyone who has (I don't know any 14 year olds for starters), but you really need to keep away from them. Don't go on this blogging site, they will soon get bored if you pay no attention to them.

Hope you get it sorted.

A couple of 14yr olds trying to split you up, arn't you taking this a bit too seriously?

It sound like a group of kids messing about, you should just ignore them.

Sorry, I didn't mean they're claiming he's having sex with them or anything, but they're claiming that he's kissed one and wants to be with her! Besides, they don't live around us, it'd be a bit difficult for him to cheat in that way!

I won't leave the blogging site, it's my friends, and he's offered to ban them many times, but that'd end up in more trouble I think! I'm ignoring them and playing dumb at their little hints that he's cheating. That seems to shut them up!

I am ignoring them, it's just upsetting to think that some people so desperately want to split up a one and a half year relationship, and frustrating to think I can't shut them up!

I would definately ban them, it won't cause further trouble if you don't see them in "real life". In fact it's probably the best thing to do.

The thing is if they're banned then I think it'd make their tactics even more evil! I don't remember behaving like this when I was 14, and I don't think I ever would!

Well, if you can't ban them, the only other thing is to ignore them. The more they know they are bothering you, the more they will do it and the worse they will get.

Good luck!

Take them to one side and explain the folowing. As someone has already touched upon, supposing these allegations were true, your boyfriend would be convicted of rape. Obviously they aren't telling the truth. Take them to one side and inform them of the law. A woman (or man) can be imprisoned for up to seven years fo this kind of false allegation. I'm aware that they aren't accusing him of that, but they did claim that he'd slept with one of them.

Telll them that when a man sleeps with a girl under the age of consent, that this is the harsh reality. Inform them that you are not going to tolerate this, that you have obtained a print-out from your mobile phone of all the texts that they have sent and that what they are doing is a criminal offence..

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, that you have obtained a print-out from your mobile phone of all the texts QUOTE]

By this I mean that you would use the receipt of text messages as evidence.

they can't type without fingers

Get other people to post fake comment about them. Turn it around on them. See how they like it.

I know exactly what you mean. They're young, they're jailbait, they're EVIL.

Stay away from them.