Men argh confused

I started uni this September, and after meeting up with a guy I'd become friends with over the internet we started dating. I was totally caught up in this whirlwind romance, so after i was dumped, i was gutted to say the least. We carried n sleeping together, in the hope that it might get us back together again. However it didn't, so I'm moving on with my life. Over the Christmas hols two friends from uni have made it clear they want more to happen between us. I know I'm not quite over my ex, but he's been really poseesive since we broke up. Like when we go clubbing- we're still best mates, he warns other guys off me, which just confuses me, as he doesn't want to be with me, yet he doesn't want anyone else to either. This is kinda making me think that he does still want to be with me. Anyway I've had enough of feeling under his thumb, however i dont know what guy to say yes to. I get on with them both equally well, and fancy them both the same amount, so its really confusing me. I dont know what the point of the message was, but i just wanted to get it all off my chest.

Reply 1

Harv616

9

Sounds like you need to take a break from this ex, either break all contact with him, or atleast get him to back off from you. If you keep cuddeling him and keep haveing so much contact with him he will never leave you alone, you will never get over him and you will never be happy.

For the other two guys, i guess flip a coin or somthing? :confused:

Reply 2

BhArJ

Sounds like you need to take a break from this ex, either break all contact with him, or atleast get him to back off from you. If you keep cuddeling him and keep haveing so much contact with him he will never leave you alone, you will never get over him and you will never be happy.

For the other two guys, i guess flip a coin or somthing? :confused:

Yeah good advice cheers, however stupidly i spent all my time with my ex, so dont really have a circle of friends that he's not in, but cheers anyway

Reply 3

Harv616

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Anonymous

Yeah good advice cheers, however stupidly i spent all my time with my ex, so dont really have a circle of friends that he's not in, but cheers anyway

Ah iv been there befor, if you are going to be best friends with him you wont get him out of your head :rolleyes:

good luck

Reply 4

Ilovepuremaths

To be honest you have two choices.

1) Get back with your ex. If you still really care about him, and he still really cares about you, then make a go of it, and work things out really well!!

2) Get over him and find someone better. He has no right to try and stop you being with other guys, at all!!! I know it's hard, last year I was so besotted with someone I never thought I'd be able to even look at another guy, but you can get through it. And when you can look back and think 'why was I so cut up over that?' its the best feeling ever.

Men argh confused

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