i started sleeping with my boyfriend a couple of months ago and i've been trying to have multiple orgasm with him but it doesn't work. Once I've had one It just gets too sensitive and i have to ask him to stop.
I know you cant post sex tips on this forum but can anyone direct me maybe to a link on the web or something?
i doubt they do exist but on the rare occassion when you do have them it's not like beautiful waves of huge orgasms,it's the first one and 2 -5 little ones after.don't waste your time when you can have fun with one huge explosive one
Usually it's the clit that becomes too sensitive after orgasm. While it's harder, try using other methods to gain an orgasm - if you can find your g-spot, or if you're one of the lucky women who can come from vaginal stimulation, then great. If not, this can be a little tricky.
Oversensitivity is one of the main things that stops women having multiple orgasms, and there's no way around it. When I was with my ex, we usually stopped after one for a little bit (mainly because she liked to be hugged after coming ) and continued a few minutes later, when the oversensitivity had gone down slightly. Not technically multiple orgasms, but you can do this as many times as you want, until you get exhausted.
The few times she did have multiple orgasms were mainly when her mind wasn't on the sensitivity, so she didn't notice it, and we just carried on. They're not exactly the same as the first orgasm, but that's not to say they're any less enjoyable - she always said they were just "different". Trying a 69 or something else mutual can take your mind off the sensitivity, so you're able to carry on, but to be honest, I really don't think it's worth fussing over - just have a 5 or 10 minute break to stroke and chat and cuddle each other and then go for another one