Girls are weird

This is an update to an earlier thread here

A quick synopsis:

Met a girl at uni who I used to go to school with. Fancied her like crazy and went to the opera, drinks etc. a few times. Couldn't tell how she felt and got lots of mixed signals so I didn't make a move (remember we were FRIENDS at school so I thought that might be how she felt). 10 minutes later she's dating another guy from the course. I later find out from a mututal friend that she fancied me like mad but thought that I didn't like her

I told her how I really felt when I found this out. I told her (in a letter after a ridiculously awkward phone call) to call me if she thought about it and decided that she wanted it to go somewhere. She called me last week.

Phone call goes like - 'Haven't spoken to you in a while. Hope you're well. Would you like to get together some time next week and do a little bit of work (yeah, not sure about this either). Maybe we could go for a coffee afterwards?'

Pick her up today. She's looking hot as hell and seems to have put makeup on, perfume etc. She seems very flirty (but bear in mind we are friends too).

She never mentions what I said to her last week. Not sure if she's seeing some dude off the course (she had a thing with him after she thought I didn't fancy her) but someone (bumped into a couple of friends in the library) asked if she'd 'heard' from him over the Christmas break and she said yes. He was fine etc. We go for lunch together etc. and she doesn't mention him again.

What do you make of that? She mentioned about us going for lunch tomorrow (possibly with friends).

Reply 1

pumpkin7

in reply to the title;

boys are weird too... what is it with you guys and saying you will be right back, and yet an hour later, you still haven't returned? BLAHHHH

Reply 2

Vitriol01

She definitely fancied me 8 weeks ago (as I found out). I just don't know what she wanted today. I mean, if you'd just had a letter from a guy telling you exactly how he felt, wouldn't you try and avoid him for a while even if you were friends but didn't feel the same way anymore? The thing is:

1. I know she likes/ liked me.
2. I like her.
3. I think she might still be seeing another person and won't just stop seeing him because of me (don't know why).
4. I think she got burned a few years ago with a bad relationship and is a bit apprehensive.
5. I don't have all fecking day. I'm moving away in August