Boy with no ex of girls of gf's

I was just talking about this with a friend, Would you find it odd or cute if your boyfriend had never had any other experience of girls what so ever. (no kissing, or no sexual ex) before you?

My friend said she thinks it really strange for a boy of our age (19) not to have had any girlfriends. I on the other hand, think it’s kind of cute

What about you

Reply 1

Helenia

20

I'm not sure about cute. In some people it could just be because they haven't been lucky or are shy, in which case it's quite sweet, but not something that would make me jump on them. If it's because they haven't tried/are horrible/anti-social/not v attractive, then the fact they hadn't kissed anyone wouldn't be a surprise and wouldn't be hugely endearing.

Reply 2

Beelzebub

If I already liked a guy and then found out he had no experience I don't think it would make a difference (and would be quite fun being teacher, could work to my advantage - "yes it's normal for you to give me oral sex four times a day!"), but wouldn't exactly be a turn on in itself.

Reply 3

Hayley_2k4

OP

12

Beelzebub

"yes it's normal for you to give me oral sex four times a day!"),

lol. Good one. :p:

Reply 4

Lady Venom

14

Some people may enjoy 'teaching' or passing on their knowledge. I personally am not a fan on the inexperienced, but that is just personal preference

Reply 5

MNBStyle

9

Hayley_2k4

I was just talking about this with a friend, Would you find it odd or cute if your boyfriend had never had any other experience of girls what so ever. (no kissing, or no sexual ex) before you?

My friend said she thinks it really strange for a boy of our age (19) not to have had any girlfriends. I on the other hand, think it’s kind of cute

What about you

I wouldnt think much of it, i would just presume there either shy, dont beleive in sex before marriage or they just dont like to dive into bed with the first person they remotley like therefore having some self respect for themself

Reply 6

Yeah thats pretty much my case (I'm 18). Its not because I haven't tried or I'm anti-social. And I'm pretty sure its not based on my looks. Just not been lucky I guess, I've tried in the past but it always fails miserably. I can talk to girls fine, but just find it hard to go further because I'm not sure at all how far I should go.

Reply 7

fuglyduckling

2

Anonymous

Yeah thats pretty much my case (I'm 18). Its not because I haven't tried or I'm anti-social. And I'm pretty sure its not based on my looks. Just not been lucky I guess, I've tried in the past but it always fails miserably. I can talk to girls fine, but just find it hard to go further because I'm not sure at all how far I should go.

You've been unlucky, perhaps! Don't worry about it, be nice, and it'll certainly sort itself out :smile:

Reply 8

Well Im like that, But its just because I havn't really tried and have wanted to wait for someone I really like. Im 17 btw.

Reply 9

Leigh

15

I guess it depends on the girl. I'd be willing to go out on a limb and risk stereotyping and link this with another discussion on here recently; the one about girls dating guys their own age. (looked for link but no luck)

I think those that like older guys do that for the experience and to be 'controlled', and therefore wouldn't like to be the teacher.

Those that could tolerate guys their own age, I'd bet, would be more accepting of an inexperienced guy; they are more won over by the "cute" type, which is probably the best way to play inexperience.

Reply 10

blissy

15

Fresh canvas with no nasty ex-gf acquired habits to un-do sounds lovely! As long as he's a fast learner I don't see the problem (cute only gets you so far ^o))

Reply 11

Adhsur

15

Don't know about how cute it makes a guy to not have had gfs, but imo one thing is for sure: a boy having had loads of gfs is a definite turn-off.

Reply 12

xXMessedUpXx

15

Hayley_2k4

I was just talking about this with a friend, Would you find it odd or cute if your boyfriend had never had any other experience of girls what so ever. (no kissing, or no sexual ex) before you?

My friend said she thinks it really strange for a boy of our age (19) not to have had any girlfriends. I on the other hand, think it’s kind of cute

What about you

not at all. i like the fact i've taught him all he knows :biggrin:

mwahahah

Reply 13

Catski

Well, with one ex of mine, I was his first girlfriend and things didn't last long precisely because I used to get really frustrated with his idea of what a relationship was. He seemed to copy every single "romantic" cliche without having any idea what might suit me better, kissed like a wet fish despite endless tactful pointers and put me absolutely last. So I prefer someone with a similar level of experience with the opposite sex to my own.

Reply 14

CherryGarcia

1

I would be sooo happy if my Bf woudnt have any ex...when I think about him having another girl for 3 years..uff it is just simply drives me mad..i know it is abnormal but I cant do anth..well, but we cant chnage past...unfortunately

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