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Right basically i have been having casual sex with my ex girlfriend for about 3 months now and she said she was still using the pill and whenever we have sex we always use condoms. But anyway she now says that her periods 4-5 weeks late and basically is a bit worried about pregnancy etc.

This happend last year when we were together and her period was 5 weeks late but everything was fine, however she now tells me that she stopped using the pill 2 months ago but when i asked her about one month ago she said she was still on it?

I dont know whether shes just saying its late and what not to get attention (as she has done similar in the past) or her period really is 5 weeks late? We always use condoms and to the best of my knowledge they havent split so im very confused!

Thoughts anyone?

Reply 1

Fire Point

Perhaps a wee bit of sperm got through and impregnated, it's entirely possible. Get a pregnancy test!

Reply 2

Jenna Leicester

If you always use condoms then I personally think that she is just trying to scare you. A lot of girls do it. Sorry to tell you. x

Reply 3

lukeharmz

But you got to remember that condoms are not 100% protective.

Reply 4

Little Girl Red

If she was lying about the pill (on either occasion when you asked) then its entirely possible that she is lying about this. Get her a pregnancy test, and if it is negative, I think you need to think about breaking off your relations with this girl, however hard it is.

Reply 5

TrentEnd

lukeharmz

But you got to remember that condoms are not 100% protective.

"They aren't?! They should put that on the box!!!" Ross Gellar

Reply 6

ellewoods

TrentEnd

"They aren't?! They should put that on the box!!!" Ross Gellar

Unfortunately girls (in my experience / circle of friends) only have `casual sex` with someone they really like ... I would take a guess she still likes you and is attention seeking, especially if she has a history of doing so.

I would get her to do 2 tests, (mathematically ridiculous odds of 2 being wrong, so she cant come back to you later and day "ooh maybe it was wrong, i still havent come one") and then I wouldnt sleep with her again.

And if she is pregnant, make that angry call to the condom complaints department.... :wink:

"So 3 times out of every 100 times Iv had sex, it hasnt even worked AT ALL??!!!" :eek:

Joey Tribbiani

Reply 7

Higgy

Well so far as i know it still hasnt happend (or so she claims) but she has said that she's depressed and feels like she wants to cry all the time and that the only way she can be happy is if we get back together again blah blah blah. So again im leaning towards the attention seeking bit, if it is true then our 'relationship' is over end of story......still doesnt help me feel any less crap about her 'pregnancy scare' agghhhh

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