new year new start

right my new year promises were to find a job and find a decent bloke!!

and ive been single since about may-june!!
now is this just negative thoughts but i can't see myself in a relationship, i just see myself as peoples mates and nothing else!!
i don't think i can ever be good enough for being a girlfriend.
i get fed up with seeing my mates with lovely lovely guys and then i just attract weridos and old weridos the thing is my mates who get the nice guys honestly treat them like crap and are not that nice as mates either!!

why do guys go for the easy lays and craggy attitudes and not real people??
do i need to start acting like an easy lay which is stupid but thats all guys seem to want to know about these days!! :eek:

Reply 1

TOD100

Anonymous

do i need to start acting like an easy lay which is stupid but thats all guys seem to want to know about these days!! :eek:

NO! The world has enough of them right now!

Be yourself. Good fellas will notice you if you are nice and not fake. If you act an easy lay, you'll get an easy lay.

Good luck :smile:

Reply 2

thanx you it is just me being really silly thinking like that

my mates have told me to look about and not go for anything and anyone otherwise the right one will come along and you will be stuck
i just don;t know what it feels like to really like someone all the ones ive liked are complete losers! and idiots