Ok, appologies for being an anonymous user but I feel I couldn't ask this if people knew it was me, please don't flame me for it!
Basically.. I used to be on the pill and it did make me fat. Infact it made me 'overweight' on the BMI scale and since making the only change in my life- stopping taking it I have lost 2 stone and am now in the healthy BMI category and back to a slim nice healthy shape. I did try changing brands and types, none helped, I think it is just the way my body reacts.
Anyway, I now have a recent new boyfriend and we have been having sex using condoms, we are always safe, but one broke during sex. I immediatley the next morning went to the doctors, got the morning after pill and relaxed. But I had period, much shorter and lighter and earlier than usual, and I thought that was a sign you may be pregnant? My period would normally be due tomorrow, can I take a pregnancy test now? Would it work this early...? (It happened before x-mas)... anyway on that topic....
We were fooling about on bank holiday monday evening and I know that there was some sperm in the bed, possibly on his hands and definatley on his body and he was touching me... didn't dawn on me until afterwards and I feel worried about that now, is it too early for that to show on a test?
And as if this was not worse!! Just inside (around lips too) of my vagina is very itchy... could this be an STI? We were both not virgins and he did enter me as a part of forplay with no condom (STUPID YES I KNOW) Erghh, but again I know you will tell me how stupid I am but I am asking for help, not to feel any worse (especially with exams coming up!) I had a problem 'getting wet' and I think it may have been something to do with that from the last time we had sex? Can that be thrush?
What should I do about contraception, condoms I can see are only going to cause a problem! I don't want to be fat, I like my weight! What should I do?
Any help and advice would be so gratefully apprieciated, I'm so worried and I don't know what I should be doing! (Except revising!)
XXX