I really don't know what to say. Have you accepted that at some point, he's going to be gone? (sorry if I'm being blunt or anything :s) Once you have accepted, as a family, that he is sick and that he's going to die, you will be able to talk about it and be there for him. Tell him how you feel. Even if you find it hard. You will regret not saying things you've wanted to, once he's gone. Reassure him taht you will cope once he's gone, tell him he's been a fantatsic father and you will always love him. Tell him how brave he is...Just make sure he knows how much you care for him before he goes...I hope this helps. XxxX