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Well i am 15 and went out for the first time ever last night. It was the most amazing night of my life lol i felt soo at home/left at like 4am. Thing is, my mum obviously doesnt know where i am. I lied that i was going 2 a mate's house but she still had said no but i went anyway. I must have kissed sum1 who started molesting me lol dont worry i did it back. It was just incredible.. had about 4 vodka shots.. so much JD/beer aswell got so drunk. I know im young but i want 2 do this regularly. It just helps with the alienation at school and homophobia i have 2 endure from kids/ some of my family.
But my mum says i'll ghave 2 move out if i continue.

Reply 1

The Mudman

10

Are you asking a question?

Reply 2

grace

15

it's not actually 'molesting' if you enjoy it and do it back.

and what do you want us to say?! well done, have a cookie.

Reply 3

The Mudman

10

grace

well done, have a cookie.

Reminds me of that line in 28 Days Later. Pure comedy genius :hahaha:

Reply 4

Chickadee

Anonymous

Well i am 15 and went out for the first time ever last night. It was the most amazing night of my life lol i felt soo at home/left at like 4am. Thing is, my mum obviously doesnt know where i am. I lied that i was going 2 a mate's house but she still had said no but i went anyway. I must have kissed sum1 who started molesting me lol dont worry i did it back. It was just incredible.. had about 4 vodka shots.. so much JD/beer aswell got so drunk. I know im young but i want 2 do this regularly. It just helps with the alienation at school and homophobia i have 2 endure from kids/ some of my family.
But my mum says i'll ghave 2 move out if i continue.

Its a buzz when you start going out isnt it :biggrin:

I was clubbing at 16 and had the time of my life.

However your still only a baby really. Stick with your friends alll the time and never get so rat arsed you dont know what your doing. I probably sound like an old woman but theres a lot of risks.

Have fun but be safe :smile:

Reply 5

FireDeuce

14

I laugh in the faces of clubbers. Especially those underage.

Reply 6

I guess i sort of want 2 form a reputation..it felt good to have people complimenting me and stuff that is different to school. And i'm no baby..my mentality exceeds that of a year old lol. I dont wanna throw my childhood away but this is way more exiting than being a child! lol... i am torn between clubbing at the expense of loosing my mum/family (being kicked out) and basically throwing away happiness because i can completley get rampant/lose myself

Reply 7

The Mudman

10

FireDeuce

I laugh in the faces of clubbers. Especially those underage.

May I join you? Not having a go or anything, but what's so exciting about going out and getting pissed, while listening to crap music and being accosted by uncouth females anyway?

Reply 8

no offence intended but i think maybe you need to grow up a bit and become a bit more responsible before you go out getting wasted when you're only 15...theres plenty of time for all that stuff, BELIEVE me

Reply 9

Chickadee

Anonymous

I guess i sort of want 2 form a reputation..it felt good to have people complimenting me and stuff that is different to school. And i'm no baby..my mentality exceeds that of a year old lol. I dont wanna throw my childhood away but this is way more exiting than being a child! lol... i am torn between clubbing at the expense of loosing my mum/family (being kicked out) and basically throwing away happiness because i can completley get rampant/lose myself

Im sure your mental age most certainly exceeds that of a one year old...and probably most 15 years olds come to that :p:

However, its not all lights and fun and dancing. Clubbing can be a very dangerous business. Just wanted you to be safe. And remember the 18 guideline for clubs is there for a reason.

Can you talk to your mum...comprimise may be? You should really respect her wishes particularly if your under her roof. Shes probably just worried about you but I know at 15 it would be hard for you to give that lifestyle up already, particularly because you've had a bad time at school. Can you pretend your going to a friends to do schoolwork or something?

Reply 10

Ceri327

9

although parents can be so **** at understanding. lying about where you are going is not the way foward, you'll either get caught and get a rite b********* or something annoying will happen while your out like ull get so pissed its all u can do 2 ring ur mum to get her to pick u up or ull sleep in a ditch all nite (believe me this can happen, dont recommend the ditch thing) or worse. also is it really worth it if ur gonna loose ur family where will u go if they chuck u out
i started going out to gigs and clubs wen i was bout ur age, although there was no way my mum wud have let me if she'd known i always stayed at a mates house and told her which one, jus left out the going out bit (however im not suggesting this)
getting pissed is fun and going out is too, dont over do it, its really good that uve found something that u enjoy and feel "at home" doing but dont do it to ur own risk ull get to do it in 3 years neway

welcome to the world of hangovers i have a b**** of one today

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also make sure ur going with people u know and trust to take care of u if worst comes to worst which it can do

Reply 11

FireDeuce

14

See, gigs are fun. They have a point, and are a good fun time.
Clubbing is just drinking pure sugar to try to get drunk, believing you are more drunk than you are, then having sex with someone you just met in a groggy toilet with chavs balling their eyes out because that's their boyfriend.
its definately not worth giving your life up for it.

Reply 12

mangomaz

14

FireDeuce

See, gigs are fun. They have a point, and are a good fun time.
Clubbing is just drinking pure sugar to try to get drunk, believing you are more drunk than you are, then having sex with someone you just met in a groggy toilet with chavs balling their eyes out because that's their boyfriend.
its definately not worth giving your life up for it.

clubbing is all about the dancing!!!

Reply 13

Ceri327

9

then having sex with someone you just met in a groggy toilet with chavs balling their eyes out because that's their boyfriend.

i dont think thats compulsory

Reply 14

emilyemily

Anonymous

I must have kissed sum1 who started molesting me lol dont worry i did it back. It was just incredible.. had about 4 vodka shots.. so much JD/beer aswell got so drunk.

No offence, but that doesn't sound like much fun to me. Definately not worth ruining your relationship with your parents for. Are there no other ways you can develop friendships with people from your school?

Reply 15

Fleece

15

Tbh you don't sound all that mature to me. Yes it can be fun - you'd get sick of it after a while anyway, and then where would you be, apart from kicked out and a damaged liver by the time you're legal.

Reply 16

Angel Interceptor

11

Anonymous

I guess i sort of want 2 form a reputation..it felt good to have people complimenting me and stuff that is different to school. And i'm no baby..my mentality exceeds that of a year old lol. I dont wanna throw my childhood away but this is way more exiting than being a child! lol... i am torn between clubbing at the expense of loosing my mum/family (being kicked out) and basically throwing away happiness because i can completley get rampant/lose myself

Surely you care more about your family than going out and getting pissed, right? Plus, you're still a kid. My parents were cool about me going out when I was that kind of age as they knew they couldn't stop me, but generally speaking I told them where I was going out and when I expected to get home or where I was saying. The only thing they said was to be careful and not drink too much, which is perfectly understandable.

And what the hell are you on about when you say 'I guess I sort of want to form a reputation'? What reputation do you want? Do you want everyone to think you're really cool because you're 14 and going out and getting lashed just because you can get lashed? That's not cool - going out for a good time (ie. dancing, spending time with your friends, etc) is cool, but going out simply to get pissed is idiotic in my eyes especially at your age. I think you should seriously think what your family means to you before you decide that you're going to shun your parents' advice and keep on going out.

Reply 17

Sophdoph

1

If you start clubbing every week at 15, you'll be bored of it when you are 17. Then when all your friends are going out and when everyone turns 18 and can actually go out legally, you won't want to...you'll have been there, done that, and got the t shirt as it were.

Reply 18

bob_54321

and how are you going to afford it anyway??? it can get pretty expensive, as i assume you dont have a job yet (at least nothing more than a paper round). just wait. and noone is going to think youre really cool for doing it, so, if youre looking for a reputation youre only getting a bad one on this forum really. good jow your an anon user.

Reply 19

xoxo_GossipGirl

11

Awwww, I remember my first time clubbing, bless you, like someone above said, if you go too often it gets boring, I went at least once evry fortnight between 15 and 17 and now its just sooo rubbish. By all means go every now and again, but when you're older you'll wish you hadn't gone all the time

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