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Other half going back to uni...

Who else is feeling rubbish and bored and lonely now that its going-back-to-uni time once more?
It's been twelve hours and I miss him already :frown:

I'm quite pathetic and soppy, really... I cried and everything when we said goodbye! :blush:

Will be nearly a month til I see him again, and I felt the urge to moan to someone...

Reply 1

pumpkin7

13

i somehow feel lucky that my other half will only be an hour away.. i remember crying so much when he got his results and was like 'i can get into loughbrough'.. which is far away.. then he opened up this other letter which said birmingham.. and i was so relieved.

but yeah, i'm dreading september.. :frown:

Reply 2

Ilovepuremaths

Aww poor you! Where does he go to uni?

Reply 3

amie

14

I had to say goodbye to my boyfriend last night, which sucked :frown:

In theory it shouldn't be too bad for us, because he's at Bristol which is only about 20 minutes away from Bath (where I go to uni) on the train. But its not the same during term-time...last semester it always felt really rushed because I had a weekend job so we'd have to see each other in between lectures on weekdays, or just miss lectures so I could stay at his house. It should be better this semester though, as I quit my job :smile:

I shouldn't moan really, I was in your position last year when I was still at sixth form and he was a fresher. I wouldn't see him for months at a time, and that sucked really badly. Don't worry, you're not the only one feeling this way and loads of people understand how you're feeling! Just try to keep busy, and before you know it you'll be together again :smile:

Reply 4

hippychick4eva

i know how ur feeling... my boyfriend went back to loughborough last night.. and here i am revising for my A-levels... really missing him already... we've onyl been going out for a couple of months but we're so close now. it has been amazing spending so much time with him over christmas, we spent time together everyday... including christmas day... it was great :smile:

Im really missing him now though... luckily hes coming back next weekend, but then i wont see him for another two weeks... hopefully after my exams are over though ill be able to go and see him.. its only an hours drive...

Its gonna be harder when i go to uni next september... none of them are close to loughborough... thogh im sure we'l work though it... i know that this is gonna be a great relationship and we have to keep being positive bout it...

Relationships that do work over distances though uni have gotta be pretty strong though... and if you can last all the way through uni.. well thats gotta be a good thing... :smile:

Reply 5

pumpkin7

13

why is uni so annoying? meh.

Reply 6

shinyhappy

OP

14

Haha. He's just gone back to Loughborough. How ironic! Its obviously an annoying little hell hole in the middle of no-where!!! :angry:

*apologises to anyone who goes to loughborough - I'm sure its lovely really*

Reply 7

bewithoutyou

I'm at the opposite side of it - the one going back to uni and leaving my boyfriend here :frown:

I hate it. We're only 2 hours apart but I miss being able to see him on the spur of the moment, or hug him if he's had a bad day, or just sit together on the sofa watching TV and talking rubbish. When we first met we worked together and I got to see him every day, and now it's weeks at a time. But he's worth it. Sigh :frown:

Reply 8

TrentEnd

2

shinyhappy

*apologises to anyone who goes to loughborough - I'm sure its lovely really*

It's not

Reply 9

Lady_Muck

14

Haha! Mine's at Lboro too!!

He's gone today. I last saw him last night, friends party, v drunk, I left him at 9 this morning still drunk in bed, feeling very ill.

Reply 10

xxredlipstickxx

God i know exactly how you feel, i am extremly down in the dumps because my boyfriends just gone back to uni. Thing is i had to take a year out, and all my friends are at uni too, so i have absolutly nothing in my life atm (very depressing). He's down at sussex and i'm in coventry so it takes about 3 hours to get there by train. So yeh i'm feeling very sorry for myself atm! Pm me if you ever wanna moan :smile:

Reply 11

LawQueen

14

look at the bright side

he might not do someone but if he does you probably won't know about it

either way you're in a blissful ignorance

Reply 12

Angelil

19

Mine's in France. Shan't see him until the end of January :frown:

Reply 13

xxredlipstickxx

ruthiepooos

look at the bright side

he might not do someone but if he does you probably won't know about it

either way you're in a blissful ignorance

really helpful

Reply 14

LawQueen

14

well lets be honest

if you really trusted him, you wouldn't be offended by that joke

Reply 15

TKR

15

at least you have one

the situation with the one i love is precarious at best right now

on top of which im going back to durham on sunday

:bawling:

Reply 16

xxredlipstickxx

ruthiepooos

well lets be honest

if you really trusted him, you wouldn't be offended by that joke

hey im not offended by it, just stating that it isn't helpful, and to be fair that might be a topic some people are worried about atm. Although i doubt you can tell how stable a relationship is by guessing if someone is or is not offended by a joke.

i think you can

ruthiepooos

i think you can

right, well we'll have to agree to disagree on that one

Reply 19

CrispyDuck

1

hippychick4eva

i know how ur feeling... my boyfriend went back to loughborough last night.. and here i am revising for my A-levels... really missing him already... we've onyl been going out for a couple of months but we're so close now. it has been amazing spending so much time with him over christmas, we spent time together everyday... including christmas day... it was great :smile:

except we've been together a year now. It doesn't get any easier does it? I thought that after the initial upset of him leaving for uni in september i'd be ok, but i'm not! I can't stop thinking about him, i really need to get myself a hobby lol. :redface:

After christmas it was like "losing" him all over again :frown:

he's only an hour away though - in Birmingham, so i'm going to have to save up for petrol and get driving! lol

Crispy

xxxxx

p.s can i ask, i know it's slightly off - topic but as everyone has boyfriends at uni, does anyone feel more jealous of other girls than they used to before they went to uni? or is it just me? It's not extreme, but i've noticed it more since he's gone. :rolleyes:

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