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men arghhhhhhhhh

This bloke who I know has been askin me out on a date for a few months now. I have always liked him but said my career and friends are very important to me, I have no room t let a man in my life at the moment. Which is the case.........BUT on new years day I said I would! With it being new year I thought what the hell. Plan was to go out on Tuesday comin.
He has just text me and told me he is sein his 'first love' again so obviously cant date me.
WHAT??????????? I hate men......... i always attract the strange ones.
All my friends are married.....and me I keep datin wierd men.
Always happens to me!!!!!! I am to dumb to c it!
An y am i feelin sorry for myself...........cos i not as bloody important as his first love.............ARGHHHHHHHHHHH!

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Reply 1
I wouldnt dwell on it, he doesnt seem worth bothering about.
Reply 2
I am not annoyed cos he hurt me........but cos I sed yes and then he went and cancelled now I feel rejected! The feelin is horrible! yeah its damn horrible.
Reply 3
Steph D
I feel rejected! The feelin is horrible! yeah its damn horrible.


You dont need to tell me twice. :frown:
Reply 4
Steph D
This bloke who I know has been askin me out on a date for a few months now. I have always liked him but said my career and friends are very important to me, I have no room t let a man in my life at the moment. Which is the case.........BUT on new years day I said I would! With it being new year I thought what the hell. Plan was to go out on Tuesday comin.
He has just text me and told me he is sein his 'first love' again so obviously cant date me.
WHAT??????????? I hate men......... i always attract the strange ones.
All my friends are married.....and me I keep datin wierd men.
Always happens to me!!!!!! I am to dumb to c it!
An y am i feelin sorry for myself...........cos i not as bloody important as his first love.............ARGHHHHHHHHHHH!



I'm sorry... I don't mean to be insensitive, but how could you not see this coming? He's been asking you out for ages, and you've said no. Most men would see that as "oh, she's won't go out with me, move on". And he obviously has.
What, did you expect him to wait for you until *you* were ready for a relationship? And then drop everything to be with you? Of course he won't. You had your chance and the boat has sailed. It sucks, I don't deny that, but you must concede you're not exactly being fair here.
Reply 5
men like to change their minds.. what can you do? meh.
Reply 6
K'uin K'ra
I'm sorry... I don't mean to be insensitive, but how could you not see this coming? He's been asking you out for ages, and you've said no. Most men would see that as "oh, she's won't go out with me, move on". And he obviously has.
What, did you expect him to wait for you until *you* were ready for a relationship? And then drop everything to be with you? Of course he won't. You had your chance and the boat has sailed. It sucks, I don't deny that, but you must concede you're not exactly being fair here.


Valid point made. But I still feel rejected.
Reply 7
Men are mofo's end off.

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Though you should have seen that coming. Sorry!
Reply 8
Poison Ivy
Men are mofo's end off.


No wonder there arent any nice guys around, you scared them all away :p: :wink:

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Poison Ivy
Though you should have seen that coming. Sorry!


Dont worry, I almost made the same mistake.
Reply 9
sr4470
No wonder there arent any nice guys around, you scared them all away :p: :wink:

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Dont worry, I almost made the same mistake.


I've not scared anyone away but they just keep on breaking my heart :frown:
K'uin K'ra
I'm sorry... I don't mean to be insensitive, but how could you not see this coming? He's been asking you out for ages, and you've said no. Most men would see that as "oh, she's won't go out with me, move on". And he obviously has.
What, did you expect him to wait for you until *you* were ready for a relationship? And then drop everything to be with you? Of course he won't. You had your chance and the boat has sailed. It sucks, I don't deny that, but you must concede you're not exactly being fair here.
I don't think I could have put it better myself.

Steph D
Valid point made. But I still feel rejected
It was a valid point. Yes you feel rejected, welcome to the club. It happens to men all the time. I don't mean to be unsympathetic but.. well I am if I'm to be honest. You liked him but you played around with him as far as I can tell. How many times did you reject him? Bit hypocritical imho, I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive but it's how I feel. I don't think you have much right to complain.

This thread has me more inclined to go "arrrrgggghhh women".
Reply 11
Poison Ivy
Men are mofo's end off.

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Though you should have seen that coming. Sorry!

What the hell? :eek:

I'm going to call you poison from now on. :p:
Reply 12
Dekota
What the hell? :eek:

I'm going to call you poison from now on. :p:


And?
Reply 13
Poison Ivy
And?

You're a disgrace to your race?

joke
Reply 14
Dekota
You're a disgrace to your race?

joke



Okaaaayyyy ^o)
Poison Ivy
I've not scared anyone away but they just keep on breaking my heart :frown:


Maybe it's you? :p:
I'm sorry... I don't mean to be insensitive, but how could you not see this coming? He's been asking you out for ages, and you've said no. Most men would see that as "oh, she's won't go out with me, move on". And he obviously has.
What, did you expect him to wait for you until *you* were ready for a relationship? And then drop everything to be with you? Of course he won't. You had your chance and the boat has sailed. It sucks, I don't deny that, but you must concede you're not exactly being fair here.


'Nuff Said...
Reply 17
Duck and Cover
Maybe it's you? :p:


Meaning?
Reply 18
Steph D
This bloke who I know has been askin me out on a date for a few months now. I have always liked him but said my career and friends are very important to me, I have no room t let a man in my life at the moment. Which is the case.........BUT on new years day I said I would! With it being new year I thought what the hell. Plan was to go out on Tuesday comin.
He has just text me and told me he is sein his 'first love' again so obviously cant date me.
WHAT??????????? I hate men......... i always attract the strange ones.
All my friends are married.....and me I keep datin wierd men.
Always happens to me!!!!!! I am to dumb to c it!
An y am i feelin sorry for myself...........cos i not as bloody important as his first love.............ARGHHHHHHHHHHH!


Cheer up :wink: I'm here :biggrin:
Reply 19
'p1mp' by name, pimp by nature... lol.