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who's a virgin?

I'm 19 and im still a virgin - i haven't had any sexual experiences at all.

i haven't had many (maybe 1/2?) girlfriends at all...

will this be really bad for my first sexual relationship cos i don't have any experience?

who else is in the same position?

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Reply 1

blissy

Nah, girls like to teach. And there are no bad habits to undo. Oh, and yes, it's totally normal to give oral sex twice a day :biggrin:

Reply 2

No it won't. Everyone has to start somewhere. There's no point rushing into it just to have 'experience.' Wait for the right person. And I'm still a virgin, you'll find there's quite a few virgins around.

Reply 3

pikaboo

Three times!

Reply 4

Introspecktive..

I'm not...

Reply 5

glisten

I was until last Wednesday.

Reply 6

Oddity

Its ok being 19 and a virgin. You shouldn't even ask yourself if its ok. people have their times.
When you say that you have not had any sexual experiences...does that mean you never kissed either?

Reply 7

Me. im 18.

It shocks everyone that im a virgin. Last night we were playing truth or dare & when I said i was they were all so eeek! Im quite a confident, attractive and not unpopular person and they just assume ive slept with loads of people. I've only ever got to second base with one guy, it'll happen, im not rushing it as it doesnt hugely bother me.

Reply 8

*~Emma~*

It won't be bad - everyone has a first time! :smile:

And i'm a virgin too.

Reply 9

Oddity

Anonymous

Me. I'm 18.

It shocks everyone that im a virgin. Last night we were playing truth or dare & when I said i was they were all so eeek! Im quite a confident person and they just assume ive slept with loads of people.

No problem on the virgin thing...but playing truth or dare at eighteen... :smile:

Reply 10

Gio

im too, shall we start off a 'im a virgin society'??

Reply 11

pikaboo

Oh come on, truth or dare rules.

Reply 12

Oddity

pikaboo

Oh come on, truth or dare rules.

Yeah...i was being annoying...it does rule. I always pick 'truth' tho.

Reply 13

i think people who've lost it when young like to talk a lot about it but there's really many more people who're still virgin at 18-20's.
im in the same position as you
i've has 1/2 of a girlfriend 3 times

so i can say i've had 1 1/2 girlfriends :biggrin:

, but i dont because that would be lying to myself.

i say: dont worry too much about it, it is true that many people loose it before 18, but im sure there's also a lot lot lot who lose it in the 19 - 22ish stage.

also, ive said "no" to around 5 or 6 girls who asked me out (i didn't like any of them), so also think about the opportunities u could've had before (thinking i could've already had sex with 5 makes me feel a bit better).

you'll get your chances, just w8 for the right person - or search for it :wink:

Reply 14

i'll share my lifestory to make this more interesting.

i am, its abit weird but its kind of by choice. I'm sure when i was 14-16 i'd just have screwed anything had the oppurtunity came along. But i was crap with girls because i think i started puberty later then alot of guys and was probably one of the most baby faced in the year!

Anyway i got into weightlifting, stopped being a computer nerd and well, girls started to notice so i guess i got a proper girlfriend at 17. Once i matured i ideally thought my first time would be with another virgin and after going out for awhile. But i never really felt comfortable with this girl, even though she was a virgin. She brough up sex a few times, once while getting jiggy in other ways in the woods. I thought i didn't want to lose it in the woods, bad setting, i don't know, iwasn't secure with her, didn't trust her, so i passed up the oppurtunity to sleep with her, did everything else though.

Sort of regretted not sleeping with her as a few times i've turned down one night stands. not that i'm against casual sexual encounters, as i've had other kinds, just, my first time having intercourse i want to be special i guess.

I've now been seeing a girl since july who i really like but we have our problems. She is a virgin and i hope she can be the one as i feel happy with her. Dont want to pressure her though or i'd be a hypocrit. btw i'm 19 next week.

Reply 15

Katia

Aww

They will get over it and find something else to talk about by next week. At least you're sooo damn interesting that they have to talk about you :cool:

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There's nothing wrong with been a Virgin at 19 - it's pretty cool that you've waited out :smile:

(edited 5 years ago)

Reply 16

Scrubs

I am, but I'm working on losing it at the moment :wink:

, wish me luck!

Reply 17

xXMessedUpXx

blissy

Nah, girls like to teach. And there are no bad habits to undo. Oh, and yes, it's totally normal to give oral sex twice a day :biggrin:

i love to teach :wink:

my bf will be the best damn lay ever when i'm done mwhahaha

Reply 18

graveyarddreams

no, i don't think 18 (or any age) is abnormal.

Reply 19

Im 18 and never had a girlfriend, is that normal? All the girls I know love me like a brother coz they talk to me bout everything.
Its quite depressing really...........