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help and sympathy needed

ermm...I dont know how to start this ..but it just feels that it is the only one place where I can get a bit of sympathy and may be advice..I just live in another country now, for already 6 monthes and have not even one close friend...no relatives..I am all alone and now it is hard to cope with feelings that I have...
the problem is in my BF and trusting him. The problem is that we have distance relationships, and it seemed to work for last 2y and a half. But not long ago some things happened, I wont write how exactly coz it will take to much time for you to read, will write just the result
1. when I came to his house i found ona table blue EYE make up liner, he told it was mine, but am I dumb or what,? i know my things and I never in my life used blue pencils...then he told that probably it was his moms, but she doesnt use any...I met her, then he told that probably it was his exs, and his mom just cleaned and probably found it on the floor and put on the table, but I cleaned many times his flat including floor, and never found anth...
2. I found a message that he sent to his colleage, calling her BEBE, I know may be it is nth, but he told they never talk...(they had sex before we met)
3. I am very insecure about his ex, and he know it..and he told he never talks to her, and then I found her contact on yahoo messenger...
4. Then, I figured out that he wrote her emails...
5. then one time, he was in a car with some girl, going home and I called,his cell answered automatically and he didnt know I was listening, I heared how they were talking, flirting (he calls it being nice) then when i thought it was unpolite to listen, I hunged up and recalled again, like 5 times, he never picked up just switched off his cell and sent me sms saying 'I am on a meeting'...after he told he just didnt want to tell me he was going home wiht a girl, coz id be upset...he sweared that he'd tell later...but why should he lie? why could not he send me sms, saying i am busy now, will explain laters?
I know there is nth bad in contacting ex, calling girls bebes going on cars with girls, but why does he always lie about this? Does he think it is bad? Just for now I dont trust him at all after all this and dont know if I should trust him or not...I want to, but I dont know what to do to trst him..I tried to talk to himabout this but he just gets mad at me...I am in despair... :frown:

Confront him

why do u need to be anonymous?

bebe... lol.

What the heck did the pencil have to do with all this? I dont get it.

Reply 5

Angel Interceptor

11

Godsize

What the heck did the pencil have to do with all this? I dont get it.

The pencil might have been his her boyfriend's ex's, who may have been round when her boyfriend said that he was no longer in contact with his ex.

Reply 6

Scrubs

I think the pencil was used as a sex toy with his ex... trust me on this one.

Reply 7

clairey87

1

But he could be telling the truth about the pencil...I have loads of pens and pencils and I have no idea where they came from

Reply 8

CherryGarcia

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What the heck did the pencil have to do with all this? I dont get it.

PENCIL FOR EYES!!!!! FOR WOMEN!!! NOT MINE

Reply 9

Misogynist

18

You cant bloody say your BF is cheating because he has a PENCIL on his desk..

Reply 10

FireDeuce

14

I dont think my boyfriend would ever question me about a colouring pencil to be honest.

Reply 11

Godsize

You cant bloody say your BF is cheating because he has a PENCIL on his desk..

WELL, IT WAS PENCIL FOR EYES, FOR WOMEN, HOW THE HELL THIS PENCIL GOT TO HIS FLAT??? IT WAS NOT MINE..SO THERE WAS SOME WOMAN THERE...AND WHY DID SHE WANT TO MAKE HER MAKE UP AGAIN I WONDER...

Reply 12

Misogynist

18

Oh sorry, I dont usually line my eyes. I'm MALE. How could I have known that.

Reply 13

Scrubs

I think the pencil was used as a sex toy with his ex... trust me on this one.

very supportive.. :frown:

Reply 14

q1w2e3r4t5y

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You cant bloody say your BF is cheating because he has a PENCIL on his desk..

eye pencil?

Edit: OP beat me.

Reply 15

Misogynist

18

pianist

eye pencil?

Edit: OP beat me.

I dont usually use an eyeliner.. :rolleyes:

Reply 16

Road Racer

Sounds like he's not worth you gettin upset over. Find yourself another guy then dump the tw*t :biggrin:

Reply 17

pianist

eye pencil?

Edit: OP beat me.

well, I am not native english speaker.... :frown:

Reply 18

Anonymous

Confront him

what do you mean?

Reply 19

I just feel so bad for this moment, I trusted him so much...and now, Id never expect him to lie, but he continues to lie, now I got email form him, saying that he didnt write any email to his ex, but she did it...though just 10 min before he refused any of these options..I dont know what to believe..i just love him but the last thing I want in my life to be with a lier...if he would tell me abuot all these, I'd not be upset right now...now i just want to take a break...
p.s. one time I was with a guy, and he cheated on me and it was very painful, I dont want ever to feel feelings like that...
oh, god i am soo down, so depressed, I want just to cry... :frown:

may be it is all thing that i am all alone now, wihtout my friends and family...

help and sympathy needed

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