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advice?

Oh man, i just got a blow in my face.

I got to know this girl about a week ago and since we were together (in a group) for some time, i assumed that she would know my name. I really really like her but i have this other friend who likes her too. curse him.

Anyway, I just found out she doesnt know my name (from the other cursed friend). Oh no?!?!

Any idea on how I can play catch up? FAST!
Maybe you're friend is just making it up to put you off?

But if you have her number maybe you could text her saying, "hey its (your name) do you remember me from (where you hung out). I was just wondering if you wanted to (think of something you could do together) xxx"
Shag her.
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Toy Soldier
Shag her.


Wow, thanks a lot
Toy Soldier
Shag her.


Is that something Harold would advocate?
Jaetie
Wow, thanks a lot


That would put you way ahead though wouldn't it?

Your mate: "She doesn't know your name, ha ha, she knows mine!"
You: "I shagged her."
Your mate: *speechless*

it's a classic.

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jeff2233
Is that something Harold would advocate?


Yes, it's the official advice of the salvo's.

He would say: "now, now, erm, I think it's time to shag this girl." And then he'd chuckle, as he does.
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Toy Soldier
That would put you way ahead though wouldn't it?

Your mate: "She doesn't know your name, ha ha, she knows mine!"
You: "I shagged her."
Your mate: *speechless*

it's a classic.


ok, but do you have any pragmatic advice besides that?
Jaetie
Oh man, i just got a blow in my face.

I got to know this girl about a week ago and since we were together (in a group) for some time, i assumed that she would know my name. I really really like her but i have this other friend who likes her too. curse him.

Anyway, I just found out she doesnt know my name (from the other cursed friend). Oh no?!?!

Any idea on how I can play catch up? FAST!


Surely you couldn't have got to know her that well if she doesn't know your name.
Talk to her, get to know her a bit, don't try to come onto her straight away. Oh, and don't be sleazy. Make sure she knows you're enjoy her company, but steer clear of showing romantic (or for that matter, blatantly sexual) interest until you at least know each other a bit.

Of course that's all just general advice: I don't know what the girl is like. She might want you to jump her bones. Some do. Others enjoy a bit of being chased and some like to be ignored a bit. It's all a bit complex, but as you (presumably) know what she's like you should be able to work it out. The first paragraph is pretty sound, generally.

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pratikv
Surely you couldn't have got to know her that well if she doesn't know your name.


Yes like I was saying he definately needs to talk to her a bit. If she even potentially doesn't know his name, then I fail to see how he can even know that he 'likes her'. Maybe she's just that hot.
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pratikv
Surely you couldn't have got to know her that well if she doesn't know your name.


I guess i've had limited opportunities since she seems to prefer hanging out with the girls in the group. you know, the girl thing...