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B/F problem yet again!

Hello

Last night me and my bf had a long and we had the opinion that we were not working out my opinion was that we jus dont see each other and it is true he works all the hours under the sun!! we both agreed that we will start our realtionship has a fresh! anyway ever since he has not txted me at all and i have tried my best to txt him and i have rung him only a few times i have tried to give him space!! i jus need advice wot shud i do? shud i contact him? let him contact me? i have no idea help me this is my first relationship and i am messed up i need advice i dont want to split up with him :frown: i love him!

Ta

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Reply 1
Well if you've already texted him, then it's up to him to contact you. Give him time... if you keep ringing and texting him, you might freak him out... Good luck. :smile:
Reply 2
Got same problem here~~~
my bf hasn't rang me or txt me for almost 2 weeks
I will just wait and see what's going on between us, but i will meet up others rather than just waiting
Reply 3
uve got sam problem really? wot do u do? do u jus not txt anymore? or dont ring him? this is wot has drove us apart but we r still in luv i cant do without him! its driving me mad
i also saw him at uni today and he did not tlk to me! he zoomed out!

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argh half od my reply not come up :s-smilie::s-smilie: my bf did that!
Reply 5
claireyfairy
i also saw him at uni today and he did not tlk to me! he zoomed out!


Your boyfriend is Clark Kent?
u think me and my bf a lose lose situtation?
this aint even my forum haha!
Reply 7
pls help me ppl i have no idea wot to do!
Reply 8
claireyfairy
u think me and my bf a lose lose situtation?
this aint even my forum haha!

Sorry?!
Reply 9
claireyfairy
u think me and my bf a lose lose situtation?
this aint even my forum haha!


WTF
argh i was gettin confused between threads sorry
Reply 11
claireyfairy
argh i was gettin confused between threads sorry


I think that if anyone should owe anybody else an apology here, it's either one or both of your parents.
Reply 12
claireyfairy
i also saw him at uni today and he did not tlk to me! he zoomed out!

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argh half od my reply not come up :s-smilie::s-smilie: my bf did that!

he's fobbing you off
Reply 13
we haven't speak to each other for 2 weeks now.I don't know who we are at moment, a little bit lost, i didn't try to ring him for once, but he seems like not want to talk at moment, so i will just leave it until he wants to talk about it. there's nothing i can do really.
oh, he did txt me once, he said hope i'm alright not speaking to me at moment, bcoz he got to get me out of his mind for a bit. then i just leave it and c what happen
Reply 14
Anonymous
I don't know who we are at moment, a little bit lost, i didn't try to ring him for once, but he seems like not want to talk at moment, so i will just leave it until he wants to talk about it. there's nothing i can do really.
oh, he did txt me once, he said hope i'm alright not speaking to me at moment, bcoz he got to get me out of his mind for a bit. then i just leave it and c what happen

this can be taken two ways; firstly fair play if he needs to clear his head or secondly who the hell made him the lord of the manor-you need one hell of a good explanation from him and for some honesty about what he's really feeling irregardless of how you'd respond to it
Reply 15
Anonymous
we haven't speak to each other for 2 weeks now.I don't know who we are at moment, a little bit lost, i didn't try to ring him for once, but he seems like not want to talk at moment, so i will just leave it until he wants to talk about it. there's nothing i can do really.
oh, he did txt me once, he said hope i'm alright not speaking to me at moment, bcoz he got to get me out of his mind for a bit. then i just leave it and c what happen


That's not very polite... you deserve a proper explanation.
Reply 16
:O:O:O i dont want to split up with him!! am i best jus not txtin or anything?
Reply 17
Anonymous
:O:O:O i dont want to split up with him!! am i best jus not txtin or anything?

give it a few days

then kill him :wink:
Reply 18
Anonymous
:O:O:O i dont want to split up with him!! am i best jus not txtin or anything?


Well you do need to talk to him about the situation, since you're so confused... but flooding him with texts and phone calls will just freak him out and/or annoy him.
Reply 19
really? i work at the same place aswell shall i stop with the txts and phone calls?