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There are loads of girl out there whothink they are ugly and think that they need to be 'hot' to impress guys. Ive never seen the point in this cause although it might matter in the teen years (when confidence/popularity is a lot of the time confused with being hot anyway) its honestly personality/style that matters later on. Yea sure there are guys who say that they love attractive women but chances are they are not looking past sex! I just wanna say that most guys are not so bothered about looks 
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Sonofdork
There are loads of girl out there whothink they are ugly and think that they need to be 'hot' to impress guys. Ive never seen the point in this cause although it might matter in the teen years (when confidence/popularity is a lot of the time confused with being hot anyway) its honestly personality/style that matters later on. Yea sure there are guys who say that they love attractive women but chances are they are not looking past sex! I just wanna say that most guys are not so bothered about looks
You seem to be saying that attractive people are better in bed - how does that work?
pumpkin7
thats wonderful.
you should get the nobel prize.
you should get the nobel prize.
Which one? Certainly not literature.
I disagree though - it depends on the person looking at you.
very cool. my fella's strange though. he thinks i look gorge when i'm at my worst. in fact, he's made me stop using any makeup. ANY AT ALL.
asianangel86
very cool. my fella's strange though. he thinks i look gorge when i'm at my worst. in fact, he's made me stop using any makeup. ANY AT ALL.
Wow, my guy says that too, but I know he's lying. Nevertheless, it is sweet. I don't think I could live without any makeup, although I did until I was 16...
I thought I was this until about the age of 18/19. Mixture of reasons, but I don't wanna bore you lol so I'll nick off back to the sports forum now.
Nysh
Hey- I know I'm ugly, and look about 14 years old (have been given the Kid's Menu at Pizza Hut on numerous occasions), but I don't try to look any better for males. They shouldn't be judging people by the way they look, but by their personality, ideally.
However, you can't say that physical attractiveness doesn't matter at all when a guy goes for a girl or vice versa. Personality is undoubtedly very important, but if I see a girl in a club, I'll immediately be attracted to her physically (if she's attractive) and would need to spend time getting to know her to see if she had a good personality as well. However, I agree that girls don't need to make themselves look attractive for guys - they should do it for themselves.
pratikv
However, you can't say that physical attractiveness doesn't matter at all when a guy goes for a girl or vice versa. Personality is undoubtedly very important, but if I see a girl in a club, I'll immediately be attracted to her physically (if she's attractive) and would need to spend time getting to know her to see if she had a good personality as well. However, I agree that girls don't need to make themselves look attractive for guys - they should do it for themselves.
That's why I said "ideally". Anyway there's an arguement that women dress really well, and in fashion because they want to compete with women, not so much to impress men.
Plus in this case I was referring to 'slutty' or "hot" (as Sonofdork put it) dressing, where girls wear very skimpy clothes... etc.
pumpkin7
thats wonderful.
you should get the nobel prize.
you should get the nobel prize.
whats wrong? Can't take the cheesiness
pratikv
You seem to be saying that attractive people are better in bed - how does that work?
No I meant that because women look attractive, men think they are better in bed.
Sonofdork
No I meant that because women look attractive, men think they are better in bed.
Which men think this? I know that I certainly don't.
SlyPie
Wait a minute, isn't Son of Dork really, really fit? He seems to work out a lot as well.
So if he's telling girls not to care about their looks, then why does he seem to take very good care of himself?
So if he's telling girls not to care about their looks, then why does he seem to take very good care of himself?
How do you know? Yea Id say I have quite a fit body because im into sprinting, I don't take care of my face! Thanks btw
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pratikv
Which men think this? I know that I certainly don't.
You know what I mean, its the stereotype im on about.
Sonofdork
How do you know? Yea Id say I have quite a fit body because im into sprinting, I don't take care of my face! Thanks btw
I saw your pictures a couple of months ago when you posted; I just have a decentish memory. I remember you were very fit.
Nevertheless, I wasn't trying to solely compliment you, but wanted to point out the possibility that looks may matter more than you have insinuated.
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