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A porn alternative

I used to watch that stuff probs once every week or 2. Each time after watchin clips n pics etc, I totally regretted it, it was dirty and sick...but while watchin my greed took the better of me.

As it was new years, i thought that, thats it no more p0rn for 2006, i actually do believe it will have an impact on my sex drive, in the future certainly. A member on here said that girls read erotic stories rather than p0rn, So i went out to investigate...

Not only have I found a complete archive of hot steamy stories, but the fact is it is completely clean(in terms of no pervy movies/pictures) as well as giving me that good feeling

As a member of now 16 years old, I think that this is a much better alternative, it doesn't give you tons of gory 'unnatural' pictures, but uses words to describe things that IMO is just as good as p0rn. So if were in my situation use google and archives will show up(wont put a link for obvious reasons).

Would you think that this is a better alternative?
Or any better alternative?
Or should I be worried of watchin p0rn anyway, IMO i think its soooo unnatural, but with stories theres actually characters who are described with real-life things...its great!

Should I be glad that im not reverting back? What do girls think on this issue? I'm quite a quiet person in the 'real-world' except if any alcohol is in my system :wink:

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Reply 1
Isn't this the same thing? p0rnographic stories?
Reply 2
but in a more healthier form?
Reply 3
Is it healthy in the first place? I'd say it's better for those poor girls who are used as sex slaves all around the world, but healthy?
Reply 4
i dont really think there's anything wrong with porn tbh. although you are only 16...porn does have an 18 limit slapped on it for a reason...these things are appreciated more when older i think/doesnt seem so unnatural. meh i know what i mean.

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Nysh
Is it healthy in the first place? I'd say it's better for those poor girls who are used as sex slaves all around the world, but healthy?


because girls dont go into it willingly?
Reply 5
Fleece
because girls dont go into it willingly?


http://magma.nationalgeographic.com/ngm/0309/feature1/

There is quite a lot of info about sex slavery, surely you've come across it. In India, girls are indiced, told they will make a lot of money in the city, and then forced into slavery. I'm sure there was a huge article about it, just can't remember where. Google it...
Reply 6
yeah i know it goes on..but im just saying it isnt all sex slaves..
Reply 7
Fleece
yeah i know it goes on..but im just saying it isnt all sex slaves..


It isn't, but that doesn't make it any better.
Reply 8
pornography is a big business - aslong as its used in moderation and you dont become addicted to it, there is nothing unhealthy about it.

I'm assuming that your erotic stories are for the same ends as p0rn, i.e. masturbation, therefore what is the difference? masturbation is something guys and girls do, and people have different stimulations for this - aslong as its nothing illegal then i see no issue. using it so heavily aged 16 is a concern though.
Is nothing sacred?
Reply 10
And you shouldn't be drinking...
Reply 11
bikerx23
using it so heavily aged 16 is a concern though.


Is masturbating once a week concerning?
Reply 12
KingLeigh
Is masturbating once a week concerning?


No, of course not. Masturbate all the times you want to unless it interferes with school or your social life...
Reply 13
anabelle
No, of course not. Masturbate all the times you want to unless it interferes with school or your social life...


I know that. But the OP said he looks at pornographic material for the purposes of masturbation once or twice a week, which bikerx23 seemed to think was a concerning level of regularity.

But thanks for the tip, maybe I should stop skipping school to do it :rolleyes:
Reply 14
Nysh
Is it healthy in the first place? I'd say it's better for those poor girls who are used as sex slaves all around the world, but healthy?


yes ok dont you have any bras to burn :rolleyes:
Reply 15
To the OP, I am impressed with your integrity. However, I think there is no need to worry about what seems to be a very infrequent activity.
Reply 16
Fleece
i dont really think there's anything wrong with porn tbh. although you are only 16...porn does have an 18 limit slapped on it for a reason...these things are appreciated more when older i think/doesnt seem so unnatural. meh i know what i mean.

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because girls dont go into it willingly?


And what reason is that? Corruption of the mind? LOL now c'mon. I used to watch porn when I was 10 years old ffs and it didn't affect me atall... not in a bad way anyway.
Reply 17
wow you watched it when you were ten. well done
Reply 18
I used to watch that stuff probs once every week or 2. Each time after watchin clips n pics etc, I totally regretted it, it was dirty and sick...but while watchin my greed took the better of me.


I think that's a tad offensive to people who actually watch porn, if it was say of rape porn or child porn I could understand you realising it was wrong. But I don't believe that the legitimate porn industry is wrong, if people enjoy watching it and they obviously do it's not hurting anyone so I can't see the problem. And once every week or 2 is hardly excessive.
Wouldn't work....
I can't hold a book in my left hand! :P:P:P