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Reply 1
Go to the same bar as her, get her drunk and then shag her :p: (kidding).

Seriously though, just go somewhere with a relaxed atmostphere and just talk to her.
Reply 2
about what? :frown:
Reply 3
gamecubes?
Reply 4
gamecube999
about what? :frown:


I'll save you some embarrassment.
Give up... she wont want to go out with you.
lol jason
u sick guy
Reply 6
gamecube999
about what? :frown:


Well find out what she is in to (nothing sex wise).

For example, I found out that a girl I liked a while back loved cats. So I talked to her about cats and from that convo led to a topic on the various books we loved.
Reply 7
Dude
Well find out what she is in to (nothing sex wise).

For example, I found out that a girl I liked a while back loved cats. So I talked to her about cats and from that convo led to a topic on the various books we loved.


How old were you? 12?
Just meet up somewhere... make her laugh/smile, find out if she's got a b/f slyly, then pop the question.. not a "will you go out with me?".. something on the lines of "So.. fancy a drink or a movie on Saturday? It'll be my treat if you insist..:rolleyes:"
Reply 9
but I have no reason to talk to her - she's not in my college, not in her class....
Reply 10
LMAO Poica, maybe they are just very in touch with themselves... err...

Anyway just talk about whatever comes into your mind (Obviously filter out the stuff that would probably have her slap you)
Reply 11
Haha Jason... Nice one.

Do a bit of recon first mate, check she's single. If she appears to be, make your move. Best done in a bar after she's had a few drinks.
Reply 12
Poica
How old were you? 12?


Actually this was last year with a girl on my course.

The girl is obessed with cats and we both love books.

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gamecube999
but I have no reason to talk to her - she's not in my college, not in her class....


Do you know her name?
Reply 13
yep.

how well do you know a girl before you ask her out though? I've never had any experience...
Reply 14
gamecube999
yep.

how well do you know a girl before you ask her out though? I've never had any experience...


Well it depends.

It might be someone in your position, someone you know from a distance, might be someone you've known your whole life, might be a classmate or it might be someone you've just seen up by the bar.

All of the roughly the same chances of succeeding, but you are more likely going to be able to go out with her if she knows who you are and that you aint a random pervert.
Reply 15
Questions:
1) So you can just ask a girl out even though you only know her name?
2) In a random bar - you just say: would you like to go out??
3) Let's say she knows my name and I know hers (we've been in one tutorial class, once). I can ask her out without getting to know her better?
Reply 16
Dude
Actually this was last year with a girl on my course.

The girl is obessed with cats and we both love books.


Books, every respect sir. But cats? Was she 12? :wink:
Reply 17
Try and appear confident and ask her if she wants to go see a movie/ go out for a drink or sumet, either way atleast you know then.
Reply 18
What a shame you boys have to have a few drinks first, we don't bite you know!!

Y don't you just stand up in the lecture theatre and ask her out? he he! she'll be to embarassed to refuse! (unless she mistakes you for having tourettes of course!!)
Reply 19
gamecube999
Questions:
1) So you can just ask a girl out even though you only know her name?
2) In a random bar - you just say: would you like to go out??
3) Let's say she knows my name and I know hers (we've been in one tutorial class, once). I can ask her out without getting to know her better?


1) no
2)no
3)no

sorry!
this is how. does she know who you are?do you have tutorials with her alot? try to talk to her about the study or something. if your in a bar with her, go up ask her what shes up to etc. it will be ok, man. take it easy.