I feel so lonely

Consider yourself lucky!
The facts of life:
a) Guys are dicks
b) Sex is over-rated
c) gf / bfs cost alot of time and money
d) you rarely find someone worth risking your heart for

Of course if you just want to get laid... go clubbing... solicit...PM me ... whatever

I'll try not to make this one of those moany 'I haven't got a boyfriend' threads.

Basically, I'm nearly 18, and I've never had a boyfriend. I've not even been on any dates, and I've never known someone fancy me. I'm not weird, I'm not ugly, I'm a bit overweight but not obese, I've been told I have a nice friendly personality and I get on with boys, they just don't seem to fancy me! My friend thinks it's because I don't flirt enough, but I like to have a decent mature conversation with a boy without having to hint that I want to jump into bed with him. All my friends have/have had boyfriends, and my best friend always seems to have a whole load of boys queueing up to go out with her, when I don't think there's anything particular special about her (oops that sounded harsh). I don't think I act desperate or anything, but inside I feel really lonely and I just want SOMEONE to make me feel like I'm worth something.

There's not really any point to this thread, I just want to vent my frustration.

I'd like to begin my reply with the words "Boys are stupid". Because, and I realise this is a sweeping generalisation, they are. They don't notice things, they're insanely insensitive and seem to think that a mumbled "sorry" is sufficient (pardon my own intensly heightened hatred of males at present )

You didn't mention if there's ever been anyone you've really liked enough to want to go out with, and if you have, how you acted with them. Guys need things spelled out for them, they don't "do" subtly.

And please don't ever thing you're not worth something. I used to feel like that, but I guess, (impending cliche) that you have to learn to be confident in yourself and like yourself before others will be able to like you too.

I know it feels bad when your mates have all got guys after them, but wouldn't you rather not try and rush something and have it mean very little or wait until there is someone you really like and have it mean the world?

Everyone gets lonely from time to time. I've been single for months now and the novelty is wearing off - I want someone to talk to more than anything. For me, a friendship is far more important than a romantic relationship. You get on with lads, so just be yourself with them. One day, one of them will realise just how wonderfully special you are, and will hopefully treat you like the princess you deserve to be treated like. Until then, dont fret about it. As they say, it happens when you least expect it.

But please don't let it get you down. Emerse yourself in your friends and have a good time. Life is far too short to be worrying about things like this, I promise!

*hugs*

I hope you feel better.

I've been told I have a nice friendly personality and I get on with boys, they just don't seem to fancy me! My friend thinks it's because I don't flirt enough, but I like to have a decent mature conversation with a boy without having to hint that I want to jump into bed with him.

if ur that frustrated about not ever jumpin into bed wid sum1 then all u have to do is PM me

I feel really lonely at present but im in a post relationship stage. To be honest i think it feels worse than just not having anybody at all.
Having been in a relationship for a long time and then having to slip back to a normal life makes you feel more lonely than ever!

Thanks for your replies. There's not really anyone at the moment who I would really want to go out with, which is even more annoying, cos I would at least like someone to get obsessed about :P

ah well im going to university this year, hopefully ill find someone.


I'm just getting so bored and fristrated about being single!