horrible sex dream :(

Last night I had a really weird dream. For some reason I had a one night stand with a really ugly, old, fat guy who I didn't even know. I wasn't remotely turned on and felt sick the whole way through. Afterwards I just felt disgusting and dirty. It wasn't rape. I consented to everything. For some reason, even though I didn't know him or find him remotely attractive (he was in his 40s and had a small penis) I just went and had sex with him for no apparent reason. I have no idea why. :confused:

Has anyone else ever had a dream like this? What does it mean? What is WRONG with my subconscious??

Reply 1

MNBStyle

9

It was just a dream, if it meant anything then its most likely to be the fact deep down your worried about this sort of thing happening.
We all have weird dreams that make no sense.
Not as if its a reoccuring dream either, well it might be but i doubt it

Reply 2

foxo

17

That weren't no dream, girl...

Reply 3

pumpkin7

13

don't your dreams sometimes relate to what you were thinking about as you went to sleep? maybe you were just thinking of an old fat guy, a small penis, and you had something dodgey to eat... i don't know..

Reply 4

Toy Soldier

3

Anonymous

Last night I had a really weird dream. For some reason I had a one night stand with a really ugly, old, fat guy who I didn't even know. I wasn't remotely turned on and felt sick the whole way through. Afterwards I just felt disgusting and dirty. It wasn't rape. I consented to everything. For some reason, even though I didn't know him or find him remotely attractive (he was in his 40s and had a small penis) I just went and had sex with him for no apparent reason. I have no idea why. :confused:

Has anyone else ever had a dream like this? What does it mean? What is WRONG with my subconscious??

Don't worry about it, dreams don't mean anything. I've shagged a fair fewmunters in dreams and woken up like "Err... WHAT??", but really just laugh about it. It's not like it really happened, and it doesn't mean that you WANT it to, even in your subconscious.

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pumpkin7

don't your dreams sometimes relate to what you were thinking about as you went to sleep? maybe you were just thinking of an old fat guy, a small penis, and you had something dodgey to eat... i don't know..

Or at any time during the day really. Maybe she just saw a fat old bloke at some point, even on TV. The sex aspect is easy to explain: you naturally become aroused in certain stages of sleep (I can't remember why, but it happens) so that would be incorporated into the dream.

Reply 5

Eien

16

I remember a MAN had a similar dream, with another man similar to how you described, but he wasn't gay...the subconscious thought processes in dreams have a somewhat mysterious nature that you shouldn't dwell on too much. One dream I had was when I was raped by a huge woman - that you DON'T want to experience again... :biggrin:

Reply 6

warranty-ideal

12

Toy Soldier

Don't worry about it, dreams don't mean anything. I've shagged a fair fewmunters in dreams and woken up like "Err... WHAT??", but really just laugh about it. It's not like it really happened, and it doesn't mean that you WANT it to, even in your subconscious.

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Or at any time during the day really. Maybe she just saw a fat old bloke at some point, even on TV. The sex aspect is easy to explain: you naturally become aroused in certain stages of sleep (I can't remember why, but it happens) so that would be incorporated into the dream.

Agree ^^
Not enough of your brain is working during REM sleep for the images coming out of a your cerabellum to have any real bearing on your conscious or sub conscious.

Dont worry about it :smile:

Reply 7

random123

2

I really think all of you people need to seek some kind of professional help.

Reply 8

Toy Soldier

3

Eien

I remember a MAN had a similar dream, with another man similar to how you described, but he wasn't gay...the subconscious thought processes in dreams have a somewhat mysterious nature that you shouldn't dwell on too much. One dream I had was when I was raped by a huge woman - that you DON'T want to experience again... :biggrin:

Yep I've had gay dreams before, and I'm not gay. I also had one when I wasgoing down on this morbidly obese girl in a bath tub, and her pussy turned into mouldy spaghetti bolognese. Talk about traumatising!

Reply 9

ApeXaviour

7

Joe_87

I really think all of you people need to seek some kind of professional help.

You never had a weird dream? I've had some really odd disgusting sex dreams. Last nite I had a dream where I'd had sex with a really fat girl and next thing I had an 8 year old daughter, who was also very fat. But she was my daughter and I had to take care of her cos the mam just dumped her with me. Took her to uni and all.. well weird.

I also died last night in a plane crash. It just turned over backwards as it was taking off and I suffocated to death for some reason.

You really shouldn't read anything into dreams. They're completely random neurotransmissions, a way for your brain/subconscious to keep occupied and should not be dwelled on. They're not even necessary! Many anti-depressant medicines just remove rem sleep from your cycle so you don't dream. These people get on fine!

Reply 10

Weird sex dreams are perfectly normal to have, but they don't half freak you out and make you think you're some weird skanky pervert.

I had a dream once where I was pregnant with my dad's baby - we didnt have sex in the dream thank god, I was just pregnant - with his baby. Needless to say, I felt really disgusting and weird when I woke up, but it was only a dream.

Reply 11

warranty-ideal

12

ApeXaviour

Many anti-depressant medicines just remove rem sleep from your cycle so you don't dream. These people get on fine!

Sorry to be picky, but some anti-depressants and alot of sleeping tablets give you very unsatisfying sleep, nowhere near as good as falling asleep next to your girlfriend with a smile on your face :smile:

Reply 12

MNBStyle

9

fragreaper

Sorry to be picky, but some anti-depressants and alot of sleeping tablets give you very unsatisfying sleep, nowhere near as good as falling asleep next to your girlfriend with a smile on your face :smile:

Very true, apart from the girlfriend bit as i dont have one so cant say :biggrin:

Reply 13

Trigger

18

dont eat cheese before bed :smile:

Reply 14

Apricot Fairy

16

trigger

dont eat cheese before bed :smile:

Actually, I had a couple of mini pork pies before bed! Do you think that might have something to do with it??

Edit: oops, forgot to be anon.... :redface:

Reply 15

Duck and Cover

15

I had this really painful dream where this middle aged lady I've seen on the bus was treading on my balls whilst I was lying in the park :eek:

Reply 16

Trigger

18

susiemakemeblue

Actually, I had a couple of mini pork pies before bed! Do you think that might have something to do with it??

Edit: oops, forgot to be anon.... :redface:

oh you slay me!

Reply 17

Teehar

10

trigger

dont eat cheese before bed :smile:

yea cos nobody's thought of that before :rolleyes:

Reply 18

MNBStyle

9

susiemakemeblue

Actually, I had a couple of mini pork pies before bed! Do you think that might have something to do with it??

Edit: oops, forgot to be anon.... :redface: