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boyfriend - confusion!

This will probably be all long and boring but will try and make it as short as poss. I'm just so so confused and not really sure what to do so thought would ask others opinions.

Well, about a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend of a year because i felt trapped and didn't wana get stuck in the same routine and thats what it felt like was happening. We went through alot together, i left to go uni but we stayed together then i moved to closer uni (not because of him) and he was always there for me.
When we broke up this guy i work with broke up with his gf of 2 yrs at the same time and we kinda started seeing eachother, nothing came of it thou we both decided it was too soon.

Last week i went for a drink with my ex and then dinner last night and we been talking loadz and i don't know if i want to be with him still? i do love him but don't know?!?! he says we can forget everything (the other guy) and take things slow and see what happens but i don't wana hurt him more than i have?!?!

just kinda needed to write this down so i could think about it and this seemed the place to do it, sorry x x x
Reply 1
If you aren't with him and all you think about is wanting to be with him go out. If you don't think about him all the time and you don't feel 'that way' about him then leave it out.
Reply 2
If he is willing, like he says, to take it slow and see what happens, there's nothing to lose right? And you went to dinner with him so you're obviously considering it? Give it a shot, you can only decide it's not going to work and stop again.