I don't care about looks when it comes to mates, I'm mates with lots of ugly people and lots of good looking people, it shouldn't make a difference to whether you like someone or not, that said, for some reason, most of my mates are good looking. :rolleyes:

Reply 5

Segat1

16

I love my mates, and come to think of it we are all hot.

Reply 6

Segat1

16

thanks what ugly people say imo kidding!! :rolleyes:

Reply 7

twiga

15

If you become friends with someone purely to make yourself feel better then I don't know how you sleep at night.

Reply 8

LPK

20

twiga

If you become friends with someone purely to make yourself feel better then I don't know how you sleep at night.

Reply 9

zooropa

OP

Sithius

If you consider yourself to be a better person because of your looks you need to grow up and live in the real world IMO.

People have a right to think that.

Reply 10

Crimson Black

13

zooropa

If you're good looking, do you think you're better, especially if your friends are ugly?

Would you get an ugly friend just to look down on him/her?

You have a problem if you find yourself thinking that you're better in terms of looks than other people. If you do, then consider this: are you better than them in any other ways? If you think so, you're arrogant. If you don't, you're balanced.

I've just realised how confusing that sounds. :redface:

Reply 11

Scrubs

plagarism zooropa... unoriginal and bland

Reply 12

fiesty_fox

6

Apparantly people choose friends who look closest to , or look like them - psychology explanation, people do that unconsciously
But i dont think that applys to everyone :confused:

I choose freidns geniunly base on the person, not their looks, cos thats just shallow

Reply 13

alej18

5

I sort of see what you mean in a way...

but theres no way i would ever look down on someone because of looks though...

Reply 14

Ferrus

19

Fleece

blah there was a thread like this not long ago...it was boring then too..

You seem in a rather petulant mood today...

Reply 15

Little Girl Red

1

I dunno...there was this girl in my group in like year 11 (when girls are MEEEAN) and she just couldn't apply make-up, and was always orange, and we used to take the piss mercilessly. I guess in hindsight we were being mean, we were being bullies, but at the time it was just funny. And I guess maybe it did make us feel better about ourselves too. Who knows.

Reply 16

fiesty_fox

6

Little Girl Red

I dunno...there was this girl in my group in like year 11 (when girls are MEEEAN) and she just couldn't apply make-up, and was always orange, and we used to take the piss mercilessly. I guess in hindsight we were being mean, we were being bullies, but at the time it was just funny. And I guess maybe it did make us feel better about ourselves too. Who knows.

Ermmm but she is not your friend though... We are talking about your own group of friends here...

Reply 17

-Kav-

12

I'm generally regarded as being as ugly as sin and, frankly, if my mates all reckon they're better looking than me they're probably right. I don't particularly mind.

Reply 18

grace

15

fiesty_fox

Apparantly people choose friends who look closest to , or look like them - psychology explanation, people do that unconsciously
But i dont think that applys to everyone :confused:

I choose freidns geniunly base on the person, not their looks, cos thats just shallow

hmmm, well come to think of it, all my closest friends and i do have long straight hair....but i think that's where it ends! personally i like having pretty friends, it means you don't have to feel bad about whingeing about things that would make uglier people feel bad (for example, i'd have no problems moaning if i got ONE spot to my friends, but if they had bad acne, say, i'd feel bad).

it's weird though because although i don't consciously pick friends based on looks, i tend to feel a stronger disposition towards pretty people. don't flame me, i just feel more comfortable around pretty people and therefore make friends with them more easily. such is life.

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