i dunno, if i was gonna study music i would rather do it at a consevatoire/music college, as your teachers will be the people you'll be working with in a few years so are really quite amazing (the ones i've sat in lessons with anyway. or it could be that the pupils make them look good!). yeah it's competitive. but i guess so is the industry. fair enough if you want to go into teaching or something related to music, but if you want to work in orchestras and recording you've probably got to get used to the eliteness and musical snobbery!! (eurgh) personally (and im like this about everything!!!) going to a uni would make me wonder where i'd end up (everyone plays the flute... that's my problem)
i visited RSAMD last year, and it's what put me off music college. just the general attitude i got from the tutor. I personally couldn't cope with 4 years of that
(also at the RAM open day they were telling us if you're late 3 times, regardless of excuse (including if an old lady collapsed in front of you... unless you could get PROOF it happened), you would be expelled. and late once or twice you were moved down the list of ensemble options, to get you "used" to working in strict timed atmosphere. amazingly i was talking to a family friend who plays in an orchestra with this guy... apparently he's never been on time in his life