Ex is suicidal - help!!!

Why else did I go back to see him at 3am if I didn;t think something was wrong? I've never driven so fast!

Got an email from my friend who was out with him last night, she said people are starting to get worried about him because he's just sitting in his room drinking himself silly, and this was what he was like before he met me. That's even worse because it means that its my fault

I think I'm going to tell his Mum, she can help more than me.

It does not mean its your fault.

Anthing could have happened and triggered these feelings so don't go blaming yourself. I was a bit liek that after i split up with my ex, but i was also suffering badly from depression at the time, so maybe its more that he's always had these feelings and it juts takes something to trigger then, and that something could have been anything. if you get what i mean

and yes tell his mum. you are his ex, and he didnt exactly trat you well, so you should have to be the person to deal with this. however by the sounds of it he does need medical attention to help him face his problems

He's alays been a heavy drinker, and it's got worse since we split up as far as I know. He took a week off work and just spent it getting drunk and off his face. His drinking was another reason I left him, I couldn't cope with him coming in every Saturday night so drunk that it took me 30 mins to undress him, let alone get him into bed. Things like that just wear you down and at 19, I think there's more to life!

I'll probably speak to him Mum at some point during the week, also I'm going to his tomorrow while he's at work to get all my stuff as it's still there and not helping him. Jeez this is such a mess

He's just sitting in his room drinking himself silly, and this was what he was like before he met me.

So before you met him, you telepathically made him drink himself silly? It's not your fault, don't be so gullible and leave him the truck alone.

He's alays been a heavy drinker, and it's got worse since we split up as far as I know. He took a week off work and just spent it getting drunk and off his face. His drinking was another reason I left him, I couldn't cope with him coming in every Saturday night so drunk that it took me 30 mins to undress him, let alone get him into bed.

One word of advice:
Dont pick such an obvious loser the next time.