Love Bite

OMG OMG people I'm in some deep crap at the moment. Basically I went to HEAVEN last night (gay club) with a mate of mine and he decided to bring a mate of his as well. It was my first time there and the whole experience was new to me but all I can say is WOW. Anyway I was clubbing away with my mates mate and to cut a long story short we ended up doing some heavy on snogging on the dancefloor for about 20 minutes.

When I left I ended up missing the last Northern Line train back home, so I had to bus it all the way home. I noticed lots and lots and lots of people were looking at me and I really didn't know why. I got home and casually strolled in and my parents were still awake. They came to speak to me and my mum starting going off her nut :eek:

and only then had I realised that I had a love bite on my neck. My mum then starting accusing me of having sex that night, visiting a prostitute etc...... I really don't know how to make my mum see sense cos she really believes I went to visit a prostitute or did something crazy.

Luckily I have told her this morning it was a drunken girl who did it (I'm not out to my parents) and she now believes that I didn't do anything too wrong. Now I have to convince my dad and that will take a lot of convincing :frown:

and I have to face school tomorrow :frown:

Reply 1

rarrar

Parents, I understand, but school, really? Or is it that they know you are gay and some assholes will make a case out of it because they know it's a boy?

Reply 2

Tarts_n_Vicars

13

Yeah a scarf or high necked shirt (depends where it is I guess!) should cover it, you could invest in some concealer if you are really freaked out about it but if it's colourful lovebite make up on it would make it look worse.

As for your dad...he was young once wasn't he? You met this girl, had a bit of a snog...you were so innocent didn't know what she was doing then boom big whacking lovebite on you. It's not like you're 12...16 is a respectable age to be experimenting with the opposite sex (obviously because you're not out to your 'rents :wink:

)

Might even end up with a "that's my boy" at the end of it if you play it right :biggrin:

Reply 3

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

14

get some arnica gel to rub into the bruise it will help it heal quicker :smile:

xoxo

Reply 4

wazza07

OP

13

rarrar

Parents, I understand, but school, really? Or is it that they know you are gay and some assholes will make a case out of it because they know it's a boy?

Only my close friends no I'm gay but I don't wanna have people continously asking me about the bite. They'd all wanna know who gave it to you etc....... and I'd have to make up an imaginery girl cos I obviously can't tell them it was a boy.

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Tomásíona - Mháire

get some arnica gel to rub into the bruise it will help it heal quicker :smile:

xoxo

Ooooooooooo thanx you :hugs:

Reply 5

wazza07

OP

13

Tarts_n_Vicars

Yeah a scarf or high necked shirt (depends where it is I guess!) should cover it, you could invest in some concealer if you are really freaked out about it but if it's colourful lovebite make up on it would make it look worse.

As for your dad...he was young once wasn't he? You met this girl, had a bit of a snog...you were so innocent didn't know what she was doing then boom big whacking lovebite on you. It's not like you're 12...16 is a respectable age to be experimenting with the opposite sex (obviously because you're not out to your 'rents :wink:

)

Might even end up with a "that's my boy" at the end of it if you play it right :biggrin:

Well its on the left side of my neck nearish the middle. I'm guessing I'll have to dig into my wardrobe to see if I have any high necked shirts.

My dad did have a convo with me this morning and he wasn't happy at all. But that was because of the time I came home and not the love bite. He said to me in arabic "you can do whatever you want at these parties: kiss and snog and then he said blowjobs :eek:

and I was like OMFG I really dont wanna be having this convo with you.

Reply 6

Jonatan

13

nlondonboi

Only my close friends no I'm gay but I don't wanna have people continously asking me about the bite. They'd all wanna know who gave it to you etc....... and I'd have to make up an imaginery girl cos I obviously can't tell them it was a boy.

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Ooooooooooo thanx you :hugs:

Just don't answer any questions if peopel bug you about it. Simply remain silent when someone asks. If you don't want a lot of fuss about it then don't make a big thing about it. Just give people the evil eye if they get too nosey.

Reply 7

kookabura

13

Arnica gel/cream does work well, it will get rid of it alot quicker, but probably not by school tomorrow! Try 'massaging' it, either with arnica cream or with any cream/oil - massaging/rubbing a bruise will help to break down the blood clot under the skin which is causing it. All you can do at school is act like your really not interested in it, and don't get wound up if people ask you about it, they will get fed up and forget about it quicker.

Reply 8

foxo

17

I love gay bars, and I'm not even gay. Anyone been to Habana in Edinburgh? That's great. I felt a tad uncomfortable with the butch lesbians in boiler suits at CC Blooms though. I was the only one who got in out of my group of friends, because it's one of those places where you get ID'd if you look under 21.

You'd be surprised how many straight people go to gay bars.

Reply 9

wazza07

OP

13

Thank you all for your advice :five:

I'm gonna stay calm tomorrow and if people do bug me I'll just ignore them as most of you have said.

Reply 10

silence

16

nlondonboi

He said to me in arabic "you can do whatever you want at these parties: kiss and snog and then he said blowjobs

umm, did he mean "do blowjobs?" or get them?

urgh

I'm sorry for saying this, but it must really suck being in your position, not telling your paretns about your sexuality :biggrin:

Reply 13

wazza07

OP

13

silence

umm, did he mean "do blowjobs?" or get them?

receive them :embarasse

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xelprep

I'm sorry for saying this, but it must really suck being in your position, not telling your paretns about your sexuality :biggrin:

Couldn't resist it could you :biggrin:

Reply 14

warranty-ideal

12

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(edited 6 years ago)

So you're gay? :O

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

14

nlondonboi

Ooooooooooo thanx you :hugs:

you're welcome :smile:

and good luck at school and if anyone asks just be like 'heh so what, means i was getting more than you on xxxxxxxxx night' :p:

xoxo

Reply 17

wazza07

OP

13

fragreaper

A love bite...? Was the other guy like 14 or just hungry?
Thought people grew out of giving hickies when they hit puberty!

Oh I don't know what they're called nowadays. I don't necessarily think people grow out of giving hickies at puberty, well the guy I was with certainly hasn't :knuddel:

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Sithius

So you're gay? :O

*Looks at LGBT society logo* :rolleyes:

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Tomásíona - Mháire

you're welcome :smile:

and good luck at school and if anyone asks just be like 'heh so what, means i was getting more than you on xxxxxxxxx night' :p:

xoxo

Thanx you

Hahahahahaha maybe I'll just say that and try to piss of some people on the way :cool:

Reply 18

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

14

nlondonboi

Thanx you

Hahahahahaha maybe I'll just say that and try to piss of some people on the way :cool:

yeah thats the way to play it - no ones business what you do or who you do it with. Keep them in the dark and don't give out too much but thats all you say and it rightly does annoy them and at the end of it all they may be like ''go on you lad'' or some will be like ''lucky f***er'' if they didn't get any over the weekend keep all your cards in the one hand and don't give anything away :smile:

xoxo

Reply 19

Tarts_n_Vicars

13

Yeah I don't think hickey givers ever grow out of it - I was with a guy once who was about 27 and I thought just a "little rough" - when I woke up the next morning my baps looked like something out of Alien, all bruised up and nasty. Luckily I have to hide my baps anyway. :biggrin:

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