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whats his problem?

Basically theres a guy who I know in uni who really has a problem with my boyfriend. He keeps asking why I'm still with him and saying I could do better, etc.

For example me and my boyfriend were down in the hall bar last night and this guy threw something at my boyfriends head (very immature) and started insulting him. This guy and his mates were friendly towards me when I went over but they said that I could do better in front of my boyfriend. What is this guys problem? Who I go out with is none of his business. It really upset my boyfriend last night and seemed to affect his confidence too.

Thanks, any comments or suggestions will be appreciated.
Reply 1
That is very unfair of him. He sounds jealous to me, or over protective. Tell him that your relationship between you and your boyfriend is none of his business.
Reply 2
he probably fancies you
Reply 3
Tell him, your bf is better than he would be :biggrin:
Reply 4
This man is a complete muppet. Sounds a vain idiot asshole with zero emotional intelligence. Make no mistake about it, he's a prat.

sarforaz
Tell him, your bf is better than he would be :biggrin:
Agreed. Say your bf is better than he could ever be, say it like you mean it and with venom. Say it infront of his face with your boyfriend there preferably. This will restore your bf's confidence and put this wa*ker in his place.
he fancies you....
He fancies you. Get your bf to give him a good kicking for being a total pillock
How very immature of him. I'd say castrate him, but I suppose he has nothing there to remove...
Reply 8
Me too! It's such text book behaviour though it doesn't make it acceptable :mad:

I think you should speak to this guy and tell him that what he's doing is really upsetting you and making you dislike him more. It probably is better to not mention your b/f getting annoyed as this might tempt him to do it more.

If it carries on, I suggest you should ignore this guy. If he cannot even be civil to your b/f then he probably wouldn't make a good friend anyway, as he doesn't care what you're feeling.
Just tell him to ****** off and leave you and your boyfriend alone.
Reply 10
He likes you and is trying to split you and your BF up.
j@de
Basically theres a guy who I know in uni who really has a problem with my boyfriend. He keeps asking why I'm still with him and saying I could do better, etc.

For example me and my boyfriend were down in the hall bar last night and this guy threw something at my boyfriends head (very immature) and started insulting him. This guy and his mates were friendly towards me when I went over but they said that I could do better in front of my boyfriend. What is this guys problem? Who I go out with is none of his business. It really upset my boyfriend last night and seemed to affect his confidence too.

Thanks, any comments or suggestions will be appreciated.


Hey I really feel sorry for you and your bf. Bet its kinda uncomfortable for you and bf.This guy sounds like he is out to do his best to spolt your friendship with your bf. What can you? tons of things maybe alreadly said here. But what one point you and bf must do is, built a bigger greater bond between you too, and ride out this silly little piss taken, once he knows your a strong bond, he will give in. Wish you both lots a luck and love.
Reply 12
I agree with the "he fancies you" crowd, and is attempting to win your affection in the typical meat-heat, jock way of bullying you. Why any guy could ever conceive that working, I have no idea.

Just say you'll let him know when you start valuing is opinion and until then, it's none of his business.
Reply 13
I honestly cant believe you had to ask what his problem is on here, its so unbelievably obvious...
j@de
Basically theres a guy who I know in uni who really has a problem with my boyfriend. He keeps asking why I'm still with him and saying I could do better, etc.

For example me and my boyfriend were down in the hall bar last night and this guy threw something at my boyfriends head (very immature) and started insulting him. This guy and his mates were friendly towards me when I went over but they said that I could do better in front of my boyfriend. What is this guys problem? Who I go out with is none of his business. It really upset my boyfriend last night and seemed to affect his confidence too.

Thanks, any comments or suggestions will be appreciated.



fancies you obviously.
Reply 15
I told her he fancied her. Last night when he threw that thing at me, he then said to me 'how was your Christmas' so I got up and told him he was ****ing prick. Then my gf came over and he said the same to her, and asked me again and I told him he was a prick again. My gf was saying 'why arent you being nice to him'. I said lets just go and she just stood there, then his mates started with the same ****. He said she could do better than me etc.

I dont like the guy and I've decided to ignore him from now on and asked my gf to do the same. If he starts again though then I will kick his teeth him. Spotty ginger turd he is. Anyway, thanks.

Also, she says he's nice to her when she's on her own. The thing is, I want her to not talk to him when he's on his own cos thats probably how he thinks she likes him. Also when he's on his own and me and my gf are together he doesnt come over. It was just last night when he was with his mates. If I see him on his own then I'll have words.
Reply 16
Elipsis
I honestly cant believe you had to ask what his problem is on here, its so unbelievably obvious...


I agree. I think she just wants everyone to reply "he fancies you.." to get a cheap thrill :rolleyes:
Reply 17
xelprep
I agree. I think she just wants everyone to reply "he fancies you.." to get a cheap thrill :rolleyes:


Maybe :frown:
Reply 18
xelprep
I agree. I think she just wants everyone to reply "he fancies you.." to get a cheap thrill :rolleyes:


That wasn't the case, I just wanted some advice thats all. How to stop this idiot. I guess the best way is to ignore him.
Reply 19
fragreaper
He fancies you. Get your bf to give him a good kicking for being a total pillock


That'll just strengthen his argument that "she could do better".

If he says that to you again, say "if i could do better, it wouldnt be with you"