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Different? How? Is there a reason for you to be distant with him? And if you really love him, this other guy shouldn't have anything to do with anything...
Reply 2
cinnamon_lips
Hey
need some advice.
i've been with my boyfriend for over nine months and he's at university. he doesn't live at home but was supposed to be moving back.
any way i love him but it seems now in a different way, i feel really distant from him when we are together plus i have found this great lad who's told me how he feels about me and i just really dont know what to do?
how would you handle it?




In my opinion relationships are about intimacy, I couldnt cope with a long distance one, dont blame you in the slightest for finding someone closer to home.
Reply 3
come straight out and ask him how he feels the relationship is, it may be feeling more distant because he too has met someone and is feeling uncomfortable, dont stay quiet. you still love him yeh, but tell him you feel differently now, if he feels the same after youve been apart for a few months then it jsut wasnt meant to be, but im sure you can stil be friends
Reply 4
i told him last night that it was i hard, and he said he would support me in whatever i decide and he'll always love me, which made it so much harder.
the other guy has so much in common with me and im CONFUSED!