My next move?

I really like a girl and I want to make it so she is my girlfriend. I know she likes me, however I'm generally rubbish with relationships and am bound to say the wrong thing at the wrong time if I don't get any advice. I'd like advice on what my next move should be to show that I genuinely want a relationship and don't want her just for sex.

Reply 1

charismatic

have you actually had sex with the girl or do you just feel that if you approach her about your feelings it may come across that it is sex you are after??

Reply 2

I haven't had sex with her, although obviously ultimately, I would like to. I just don't want to come across as a sleeze and genuinly do want her as a traditional girlfriend - but i don't know how to make this clear.

Reply 3

warranty-ideal

Just make excuses to be alone with her, spend time with her, show her you're a nice guy.. You cant force her to like you, you can however, present yourself in the best possible light.
All the best,
Si

Reply 4

I have this problem too - I don't want to seem too sleazy. Or sleazy AT ALL.

Reply 5

Introspecktive..

You wont sound/seem sleazy if you're not sleazy. Its as simple as that... Just talk to her normally, make her laugh and smile, BE INTERESTING and provided she is physically attracted to you in some way, the whole thing should go smoothly...

Reply 6

Chris.

Tream em mean keep em keen, simple as that really.

That doesn't mean purposely be harsh, just make sure it's on your terms and keep her on her toes.

Reply 7

Lirael Abhorsen

yes don't move things too fast and make it obvious you want to obtain her friendship first, then she should know you value her as a person and hopefully things will develop..

Reply 8

ebonyphoenix

If you are really interested in just having a good relationship, it will show. Just don't say "Hey bitch, you want to sleep with me?" and you should be fine. Don't worry... girls can tell if you are only interested in a one night stand and you clearly aren't.