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What the hell is going on?

I'd like some... well, unbiased opinions on my situation. So I have this ex-bf who i'm still completely in love with. Yesterday we hung out, going to an art museum, and the vibe was all very date-y. He kept saying stuff like 'maybe we should travel together after we graduate', or we saw this picture of Egypt and he was like 'we should go there.' Plus everytime i said something funny or summat he'd like, pat me on the back (awkward, i know). We had such a good time, and after he dropped me home he sent me a text that was like "i had such a great time... we should talk more sometime." but he hung out with a different ex last night, a girl who is two years older than him and they've been broken up 2 years... he says he wants to try to be friends with her again? i don't know... this is the same guy who on thursday blew me off for another girl (sort of), and then later that evening was like "oh you smell so good." GAH! i'm so confused, as are all my mates. we don't get it at all, but maybe you lovely lot do!?
He's a wannabe player - and not very good at it if you know the details of what he's doing/done.

Erm, talk to him about it and ask for clarification. If you don't feel his answers are sufficient, then just forget about him...
omg I really feel for you - he's sending out such mixed messages. Does he know you stll love him - maybe this is why he's acting that way towards you. He thinks you'll always be there and so he can go off and mess around with other girls but if he does wake up one day and decide he wants to be in a relationship, you'll drop everything to be with him. he sounds like he just needs left alone for a while to sort is own head out.
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viciouscircle
omg I really feel for you - he's sending out such mixed messages. Does he know you stll love him - maybe this is why he's acting that way towards you. He thinks you'll always be there and so he can go off and mess around with other girls but if he does wake up one day and decide he wants to be in a relationship, you'll drop everything to be with him. he sounds like he just needs left alone for a while to sort is own head out.
i think he MUST know i still love him... i guess, how could he not? i know i should leave him alone... but i'd miss him! :redface: gah. it sucks, i cant resist him... and i guess he knows it? i just wish i knew how he felt.
Reply 4
ladygrey
I'd like some... well, unbiased opinions on my situation. So I have this ex-bf who i'm still completely in love with. Yesterday we hung out, going to an art museum, and the vibe was all very date-y. He kept saying stuff like 'maybe we should travel together after we graduate', or we saw this picture of Egypt and he was like 'we should go there.' Plus everytime i said something funny or summat he'd like, pat me on the back (awkward, i know). We had such a good time, and after he dropped me home he sent me a text that was like "i had such a great time... we should talk more sometime." but he hung out with a different ex last night, a girl who is two years older than him and they've been broken up 2 years... he says he wants to try to be friends with her again? i don't know... this is the same guy who on thursday blew me off for another girl (sort of), and then later that evening was like "oh you smell so good." GAH! i'm so confused, as are all my mates. we don't get it at all, but maybe you lovely lot do!?

Hes a player, just remind yourself of why you broke up in the first place
Reply 5

yep, sounds like hes just trying to keep his options open.