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Never Orgasmed
Hey,
Yeah, a really annoying problem but I've never orgasmed. Me & my bf have tried every position we can think of, but as soon as I get close in a good position, he finds it too intense. It's upsetting him because I haven't orgasmed yet & it's getting me fustrated. We've tried lots of foreplay, still doesn't work! Any tips?
Yeah, a really annoying problem but I've never orgasmed. Me & my bf have tried every position we can think of, but as soon as I get close in a good position, he finds it too intense. It's upsetting him because I haven't orgasmed yet & it's getting me fustrated. We've tried lots of foreplay, still doesn't work! Any tips?
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Anonymous
Hey,
Yeah, a really annoying problem but I've never orgasmed. Me & my bf have tried every position we can think of, but as soon as I get close in a good position, he finds it too intense. It's upsetting him because I haven't orgasmed yet & it's getting me fustrated. We've tried lots of foreplay, still doesn't work! Any tips?
Yeah, a really annoying problem but I've never orgasmed. Me & my bf have tried every position we can think of, but as soon as I get close in a good position, he finds it too intense. It's upsetting him because I haven't orgasmed yet & it's getting me fustrated. We've tried lots of foreplay, still doesn't work! Any tips?
Maybe practice on your own first to find out exactly what you like.
I've tried this but I don't get any pleasure from 'practicing' on myself. 
there have been threads like this before.
not orgasming is a common problem... someone said in another thread that not many people can orgasm via penatrative sex, so oral stuff is probably your best bet. as eien said too, try to relax and don't tense up. i'm sure you will achieve this someday... took me a while too but ever since the first one, me and my bf can get there quite easily using penatrative sex (others envy me lol hehe).. so yeah.. once you are over that first hurdle, you will be ok
don't worry though if it is a while coming (excuse the pun), some girls never have them :O.
not orgasming is a common problem... someone said in another thread that not many people can orgasm via penatrative sex, so oral stuff is probably your best bet. as eien said too, try to relax and don't tense up. i'm sure you will achieve this someday... took me a while too but ever since the first one, me and my bf can get there quite easily using penatrative sex (others envy me lol hehe).. so yeah.. once you are over that first hurdle, you will be ok
don't worry though if it is a while coming (excuse the pun), some girls never have them :O.
Anonymous
Hey,
Yeah, a really annoying problem but I've never orgasmed. Me & my bf have tried every position we can think of, but as soon as I get close in a good position, he finds it too intense. It's upsetting him because I haven't orgasmed yet & it's getting me fustrated. We've tried lots of foreplay, still doesn't work! Any tips?
Yeah, a really annoying problem but I've never orgasmed. Me & my bf have tried every position we can think of, but as soon as I get close in a good position, he finds it too intense. It's upsetting him because I haven't orgasmed yet & it's getting me fustrated. We've tried lots of foreplay, still doesn't work! Any tips?
Just relax and don't focus on having an orgasm otherwise its harder to achieve. Just enjoy the sensations, the less you think about orgasm the more likely you will have one. Closing your eyes may also help and so might contracting your stomach muscles, when you do this keep them contracted. It helps me
.Tell your boyfriend what feels good, communication is the key. Like the others have said get him to do oral and manual rather then trying to orgasm from intercourse alone. If theres something you like tell him to continue doing it. Tell him if you want him to change something, these 4 words will help, 'faster', 'slower', 'harder' and 'softer'. You will achieve orgasm eventually, you just need to find out what you like. Once you do, use the same techniques everytime.
Relax and surrendur yourself to the flow/mood/rhythm of things...
We have tried everything! I would say I'm pretty relaxed until the end when I obviously don't reach it.
Lol, maybe I should suggest that! He can last forever in 'normal' positions it's just positions that suit me, he can't last too long so we end up finishing off like that. I do get a feeling as if I'm nearly there but I've never been there.
Lol, maybe I should suggest that! He can last forever in 'normal' positions it's just positions that suit me, he can't last too long so we end up finishing off like that. I do get a feeling as if I'm nearly there but I've never been there.
I get the same thing... there have been a couple of times when I've been so ridiculously close but as usual couldnt reach it (imagine like a car engine just starting up and then spluttering and dying) and just almost bursting into tears because of the frustration! Argh! But I've given up stressing over it. If it happens it happens.
Anonymous
I get the same thing... there have been a couple of times when I've been so ridiculously close but as usual couldnt reach it (imagine like a car engine just starting up and then spluttering and dying) and just almost bursting into tears because of the frustration! Argh! But I've given up stressing over it. If it happens it happens.
I get that too!
even on my own... it's like tripping at the finish line. really crap.
I've given up on sex as it's always so disappointing.
Try Durex Performa condoms. ~_^
Tried those! It's not really the performance that's the problem, it's my inability to orgasm.
Anonymous
Tried those! It's not really the performance that's the problem, it's my inability to orgasm.
Not uncommon. Girls usually need to have penatrative sex and their clit rubbed at the same time.
Argh I'm sounding SO difficult now! He's tried that but it really hurts.
dump him and get a vibrator.
sorted.
sorted.
Ur..... how about no. It isn't his fault!
Some girls just can't orgasm. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it's more that the female orgasm is quite a recent thing in human evolution and not all of us are capable of it.
Becca
Oral sex? Then he won't find it too intense. Or ask him to pleasure you manually.
That's foreplay, and she said it don't work.
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