im sick of being the cute little girl

i hate it.
im sick of having to laugh everything off
im sick of people not knowing where the limit is
what am i supposed to do when im treated like the little girl who finds everything funny?
who when gets tickled has to laugh when she feels angry?

Its times like this where you need to stop holding it in and take action, and express how you feel about it all like you have right now.

well i do but i crack and make a scene and i want it to stop before i crack and make a scene

But unless you tell them how you feel, the problem wont really go away.
Plus they should respect your feelings about it.

i dont have it with one person, there are lots of guys who see me as the cute little girl and tickle me like hell (and im sooo ticklish i start to scream) and they still dont stop.
its only when i make a scene that they stop, but i want to avoid making the scene and im not that close to these people that i can sit down and tell them it irritates me

Well you only got 2 choices really.

1:You just carry on sitting there and taking it until you make a scene

2:You tell them you hate it and that it irritates you

poor lass

how can i hint to them that i hate it withought talking about it?
its not really people i consider as good friends, just people i might see once every couple of weeks and chat to. all guys, all older than me and theythink im cute and its funny to sit and tickle me.
that must sound terrible but they dont know each other and they obviously dont do it at the same time, just one in every different group of friends.

i really cant talk to them about it like that. they would just look at me and go aww does it really annoy you? and think im making a joke out of it again and do it even more.

I think the fact you make a scene about it should be a good enough hint.
If there decent friends they would understand the fact it irritates you and stop doing it.
But if there going to make out its a joke and do it more then there not really worth having you as a friend, and they would need to grow up.

well one of them is 28
after i made a scene he should stop but who knows, and theres still the others....

It isnt bad.. They're just trying to make some kind of interaction with you.

Well i would still give you the same advice for them aswell.
At the one who is 28 should be at the maturity level to respect and understand others feelings.
Maybe im wrong thoe

well ill let u know in a couple of days when i see him next.

Good you do that
Feel free to PM me anytime

thanx for actually listening to me rant on

It might be what one of my teachers called "the caveman mentality". When cavemen see a girl like like, they don't bother wooing her with pretty flowers, they just knock her out with their club, and carry her back to their cave...

i hate it.
im sick of having to laugh everything off
im sick of people not knowing where the limit is
what am i supposed to do when im treated like the little girl who finds everything funny?
who when gets tickled has to laugh when she feels angry?

i hate it.
im sick of having to laugh everything off
im sick of people not knowing where the limit is
what am i supposed to do when im treated like the little girl who finds everything funny?
who when gets tickled has to laugh when she feels angry?