Am I being unreasonable?

If you all discussed it before, then of course your not being unreasonable, but if there just going to deny the discussion took place theres nothing much you can do.

yeah it really sucks because they like all ganged up on me and it sounded like they'd discussed it previously or something! It ended with them saying "10 a MONTH? no way" and basically fizzling out as the tv was on and people just turned to that. Usually I'm quite confrontational but I didn't want to cause an even worse atmosphere than it's going to be...I was really shocked at their reaction. I thought they wouldn't be so childish about it! They said stuff like "well if you want 30 of for size, i want money off for x problem"

yeah but that seriously isnt fair.
he/she should sit down and discuss it with them and say well maybe i was mistake we might not have discussed it before but wouldnt you think its fair we started doing it now? i mean its only a tenner a month.. how stingy are these people??

are they your friends or just your house mates?
u better not live with them next year....

maybe you're better off talking to just one of them about it?
see if u can get them to agree with u and get the others to do the same?

Yes it would be fair to sit down and discuss it, if your going to do that thoe, approach the person who you think will be the most understanding.

i agree

They're supposed to be some of my best mates. I'm not living with them next year as I'll be on a year abroad. Thank the lord.

yeah I talked to some other friends and my boyfriend and they all said talk to them seperately and see what they say so I don't get ganged up on again.

Thats good

that is just terrible, how could they do that??
take your other friends and boyfriends advice and see what happens, if they still decide to be like that about it, you know where to draw the line, cos at the end of the day its not just about the money its about the way they are treating you..

and there're three of them and no one to back me up as the 4th girl who was supposed to live with us and pay less due to her room being VERY small backed out at the last minute. I mean it's not like my room is tiny, but their's is considerably bigger and one deffo double, maybe more. The more annoying thing is, I let the other 2 girls have the big (double bed) rooms at the start because they both had boyfriends and i didn't at the time. I could've demaded a big room or made us draw straws but i was really nice about it and said I would be unfair if I demanded a big room because i didn't really need it. Now I do have a bf, and pay the same rent, I regret it.

sometimes u need to make a mistake to realise who your real friends are its ok

I agree again

Yeah. I mean they all also say like I should say I'm going to move out, etc but I don't want to have to take it that far, and I don't even know if that would make sense anyway as i will probs still have to pay the rent anyway. BF and friends also said try asking them to swap for the rest of the tenancy as that is quite a fair thing to ask.

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