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Reply 1
aww poor thing
Reply 2
There's no need to humour me.
Reply 3
hope u dont mind me asking but why do u hate her? has she done anything to you thats made u feel that way about her?
Where do you see this thread going?
Reply 5
Do you hate your dad too?
Reply 6
Do a Nero
ditto, i know exactly what you mean!
ferrus
Do a Nero


Or an Orestes :wink:

No seriously, you might get some advice if you actually say what your problem is with her (I'm presuming that it's not that she killed your father because he had your sister sacrificed so he could go to war.:wink:)

Leaving aside the classics, and sorry to be, umm, frivolous if this is a serious problem, advice will no doubt come poring in if you tell us the problem. Or not, as you please. :smile:
AsianAngel
hope u dont mind me asking but why do u hate her? has she done anything to you thats made u feel that way about her?


With all due respect, that's the most idiotic question i've ever read, and i've been her for a good few months now. The latter part, i mean, not the former.
Reply 10
x-Jo-x
Do you hate your dad too?


No, why should I?
Reply 11
zooropa
No, why should I?
we dont know but you havent actually given us much to go on for all we know you could just be a very negative person and hate everyone, some people might be able to offer advice if we knew why you hated your mum but we are not mind readers you know?
Reply 12
I love my mum. And my dad. But he's dead.
my parents get on my nerves sometimes but I don't hate HATE them.
I just talk it out.
(I'm a talking sort of person)
Reply 14
If I were to take a guess I would say that the TS has had a falling out with their mum and was crying about it whilst typing out this thread.

Go back to your mum and kiss and make up!
Reply 15
AsianAngel
hope u dont mind me asking but why do u hate her? has she done anything to you thats made u feel that way about her?


I hate her because she doesn't accept me as me. I had to endure being harassed at school, simply because she thinks "intelligence" is "good".

She doesn't treat her children equally. OK, yes I know parents in general don't, but she doesn't even teach us the same values.
Reply 16
zooropa
I had to endure being harassed at school, simply because she thinks "intelligence" is "good".


Is this the same zooropa I know? I thought you thought being harrassed was a good thing?
Reply 17
zooropa
I hate her because she doesn't accept me as me. I had to endure being harassed at school, simply because she thinks "intelligence" is "good".

She doesn't treat her children equally. OK, yes I know parents in general don't, but she doesn't even teach us the same values.


Anyway, parents very rarely accept you as you - I know mine took ages. 5 years after I became a Christian, they've accepted the fact I've turned into a religious nutter like the rest of my extended family.

They didn't accept that I wanted to study physics until I left for university. Now my dad even discusses it with me. That took 2/3 years.

It can be hard to endure, but patience is a virtue. It's most likely that your mother will eventually come round to the fact that she can't impose her own values on yourself :smile:

But of course it's not possible for me to give my word on that, as I don't know your mother. I hope the thought helps though :smile:
Reply 18
I've never hated my parent though my sister hates my mum for some reson i do not know. Maybe its the same reason you hate your mum. The best thing i can think of is to find out way she treats you the way she does. I am sure there is no harm behind it. She must think you and your siblings needing different values because you have different values to them. Be brave and ask here way she says this to you and not to the rest. Or way she wants you to be more acadmic then you want to. You'll be surprised theres always a reason behind it.
Reply 19
lirael
I've never hated my parent though my sister hates my mum for some reson i do not know. Maybe its the same reason you hate your mum.


I doubt it.

The best thing i can think of is to find out way she treats you the way she does.


Because she's a bitch.


I am sure there is no harm behind it. She must think you and your siblings needing different values because you have different values to them.


It's her job to teach the same values. You only treat children differently according to their needs.

Be brave and ask here way she says this to you and not to the rest. Or way she wants you to be more acadmic then you want to. You'll be surprised theres always a reason behind it.


I don't want to. I want revenge.