The Student Room Group
Reply 1
well, usually the best way to tell, is if he is called your BOYFRIEND.

usually a bit of a give away :wink:
If its a teenager.. then its to be expected!
Reply 3
marie7040
Ive been seein my bf for about 2 months now and he has on and off moods, sometimes he can be the sweetest lad in the world, then others he can be so moody! i was just wondering whether this is a common factor! I dont think hes using me but then again i aint sure, i know it sounds daft, but what are the signs when someone genuinely likes you? x



well, I'll tell ya about when I hated my ex girlfriend and I couldnt get rid of her. I didnt answer the phone to her, I'd barely speak to her, I didnt respond to any of her texts, I blanked her friends and ended up going out without her spending more and more time with my friends as opposed to her always making excuses.

If its the opposite of the above, he likes ya.
Reply 4
well hes 18
if hes still with you then he must like you, otherwise what would be the point? unless he is just some loser, which i doubt coz us woman can usually spot them a mile off
Always being supportive, sweet (but not cheesy and contrived) compliments, being honest and faithful, taking interest in all aspects of your life, respecting your ideas and beliefs although they may not always think the same way, little gestures to show he's not ignoring you when he's talking to his mates,...the list is endless!
Reply 7
marie7040
Ive been seein my bf for about 2 months now and he has on and off moods, sometimes he can be the sweetest lad in the world, then others he can be so moody! i was just wondering whether this is a common factor! I dont think hes using me but then again i aint sure, i know it sounds daft, but what are the signs when someone genuinely likes you? x

Ask him in a very sweet voice if he likes you - the typical playing-with-hair pretending-to-be-innocent way - and watch a reaction of bubbly compliments, lots of affection and extremely amorous advances :biggrin:





Ok, maybe that's just me :redface:
Reply 8
You know if he says "Yes dear"... :biggrin:

Seriously, though, I think that despite any relatively minor arguments you have, if he puts you before others and anything else (he can't do it all the time obviously, e.g. choice between having to study and seeing you but you know what I mean). then you know that he really likes you.
Reply 9
marie7040
Ive been seein my bf for about 2 months now and he has on and off moods, sometimes he can be the sweetest lad in the world, then others he can be so moody! i was just wondering whether this is a common factor! I dont think hes using me but then again i aint sure, i know it sounds daft, but what are the signs when someone genuinely likes you? x

Signs a guy is using you is when they only ever seem to be interested in one thing when there with you, and there all perfect sweet and nice when they do want it.
Reply 10
Reue
well, usually the best way to tell, is if he is called your BOYFRIEND.

usually a bit of a give away :wink:


Right on, boyfriend.