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Feeling depressed....

Firstly sorry if this is in the wrong section, i didn't know where else to post it. This is the situation. I'm personally not really a sociable kind of person i.e. don't really go out clubbing, pubs etc. My friend called me tonight, (girl mate of mine) and we got talking as usual but then she decided to go into the subject of me joining her and her friends from out of school on friday night to go clubbing. I told her that i really didn't want to go, she got really p****d off and said that i'm really unsociable, i can't really argue to that point and then she started saying that the reason why i don't go out is because theres something i find wrong with her. I told her thats not true at all and i got really annoyed. I just ended up sayin right i'm going to go now and just hung up the phone. I really don't know where to go on from here really, i just really don't like the atmosphere of clubbing and pubs. I just feel more comfortable hanging out with friends that I know i.e. school friends in a friendly environment. I really don't know what to do :frown: All this is making me feel so depressed, help.
Get drunk and go. Yeeeaaah. P-a-r-t-y! Or tell your friend I'll go.
Reply 2
more serious advice would be appreciated thanks
That was serious advice. Get tipsy and go out with your friends (and potentially even grow to enjoy it), or don't, and find new friends that have similar interests to you. It's more or less that simple, isn't it?
Reply 4
Have you been out with her and her friends before? you might like it?

If not then you could try and do other things with her, so she dosent get the idea that you dont like her.
Reply 5
No i do like her as friends, she has a boyfriend so its quite difficult to just go out with her you see. If we were to go out then i'd have to go out with her friends as well and I just feel uncomfortable with that, don't ask me why, I just do.
Reply 6
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Firstly sorry if this is in the wrong section, i didn't know where else to post it. This is the situation. I'm personally not really a sociable kind of person i.e. don't really go out clubbing, pubs etc. My friend called me tonight, (girl mate of mine) and we got talking as usual but then she decided to go into the subject of me joining her and her friends from out of school on friday night to go clubbing. I told her that i really didn't want to go, she got really p****d off and said that i'm really unsociable, i can't really argue to that point and then she started saying that the reason why i don't go out is because theres something i find wrong with her. I told her thats not true at all and i got really annoyed. I just ended up sayin right i'm going to go now and just hung up the phone. I really don't know where to go on from here really, i just really don't like the atmosphere of clubbing and pubs. I just feel more comfortable hanging out with friends that I know i.e. school friends in a friendly environment. I really don't know what to do :frown: All this is making me feel so depressed, help.

Perhaps you should tell his friend the reasons you dont like going to clubs or pubs, maybe then she will understand and if she doesn't well she needs to grow up abit
Reply 7
Ok here is something you can do to cheer up I know it always puts a smile on everyone's face.

Step one 1
Go for drive collect 3 friends.

Step two
Goto trafficlights

Step three
Have everyone lean forwards and then slamm back while you accelerate car hard, making sure to shout VTECH JUST KICKED IN YO

Step four
Laugh about it and then cheer up because nobody likes a emo.
Reply 8
i feel pretty much like you though have never had someone blow up in my face. Perhaps they feel like that but dont tell me.

anyway, the reason i dont post such threads is because i know basically its very simple push myself into the night scene and see what happens (nothing bad i should add) or dont and continue my friday night and weekend watching tv.

Guess which one i choose
Reply 9
Just go



be socialble, thats the reason you ***** in the head