Meeting asian girls as a white guy

It depends in what kind of Asian girl you mean.
Oriental girls i know nothing about so I can't tell you anything there. But pakistani or indian girls I might be able to give you some insight so give some more clarity on the type of Asian and I'll try and share my opinion and knowledge on the area.

I am interested in meeting a British Asian girl but I honestly don't know what the best way to go about it is...

I mean pakistani/indian/bangladeshi etc

You guys hang out in like... impenetrable groups, how does a white guy get in on that and get a nice private convo going? Serious question.

I mean pakistani/indian/bangladeshi etc

You guys hang out in like... impenetrable groups, how does a white guy get in on that and get a nice private convo going? Serious question.

Oh I forgot to mention, a distant friend of mine who is a few years older than me (doctor, graduated last year) just got engaged to a white guy and she's half Indian half-Iranian, good looking and successful - the lucky bastard. So it does happen.

To be honest with you most Pakistani girls (being Pakistani) wouldn't date a White guy, if the girls that you like don't make effort to talk to you and make eye contact with as bad as it sounds most probably wouldnt give you the time of day because this is just the mentality they are brought up with.

I agree with the above poster bigger cities like London have more mixed couple relationships.

Dont despair though it does happen if you are understanding about culture etc.I myself come from a mix race family my nan being White and my grandad Pakistani.
I also am more attracted to White guys and a few of my Friends are the same. I feel sometimes white guys talk to me and Ive been told by my White females that they are interested but they never say anything beyond hi and the norm convos and never really seem to make a connection.
Personally I think for me to date a White guy he would definitely have to share the same interest and be aware of my culture and traditions this would impress me, also Asian girls tend to want a longer term relationship so if your looking for a fling i doubt it would happen.

I think going out looking for this type of girl will be hard we are few and far between and also we don't really have it labelled to our forehead that we are available to all rather to our own kind so it might be hard to pick out who is who really. I'm rambling because there is no real way to find our type, perhaps if you made friends with a few Asians you will break into the friendship group and then work your charm

I'm definitely not looking for a fling, obviously I don't expect a relationship to last forever but if it did I'd be very happy. And that whole sharing and being aware of each others cultures thing is what I really want out of a relationship! I am pretty knowledgable and very well travelled so I think I could impress..

But yeah, I can't just up and move to London or Birmingham right now haha, and asian girls just don't seem to use online dating sites whereas they are full to bursting with white/black/arab/east asian girls.. so I'm kinda screwed for now..

I would avoid birmingham...

And what is wrong with B'ham exactly?

Move to an anglo saxon area like Essex or the Cotswolds. Its totally unreasonable for lads like this to become 2nd class citizens in urban Britain. Ffs their men are getting away with raping our young girls.

Move to an anglo saxon area like Essex or the Cotswolds. Its totally unreasonable for lads like this to become 2nd class citizens in urban Britain. Ffs their men are getting away with raping our young girls.

Hello there

I know a few Asians who like white guys (no, I'm not going to set you up ) but yeah it can be hard to squirm your way into a tight group of brownies. BUT there are definitely those who don't stick to other Asians. I don't for one - mainly because I couldn't due to the lack of Asians where I live - and most of the guys I've dated have been white.

There's still hope - you're better off looking in areas where there aren't LOADS of Asians...which I realise isn't particularly easy unless you feel like travelling all over the UK At uni, just look out for the ones who don't hang out in 'inpenetrable groups' and, if they catch your fancy, say hi. Or just say hi to anyone you like the look of and go from there - you never know what might happen!